How do you get over loosing the love of your life? It tears me apart when I see her with someone else.?

It tears you apart seeing her with someone else because you haven't really let go of her yet. As hard as it is, you have to let go and move forward. If you really love her, no matter how much it hurts initially, you should be wanting happiness for her. That is the most unselfish gift you could offer.

It WILL get better..it truly will. Keeping busy helps, getting out with friends and trying to enjoy other interests, meeting new people, but most importantly, it can be a really healing thing to slowly get rid of the things that remind you of her. Doing that is a slow healing process...hard to get rid of things, but you will always have those lovely memories. And memories can be good in many ways to help you heal. Just don't become obsessed in them is all. Think of it this way..you have been blessed to have known and loved a person who is so hard to say goodbye to. There is many times we have loved and been so thankful to be rid of them in the end. Be happy for her and be happy that you both had love for a time together.

Remember...People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. Time can be a healer, but more importantly it is what you DO with that time that will heal the best.

It may feel right now like it will never get better, but it will. Time does heal the pain. You will meet someone else and reach the point where you realize this wasn't the person you were meant to be with. It's not going to happen over night. You might get better, see her and backslide a little, but when you do find the person you are meant to be with, you will be so very glad that things happened the way they did.

Meanwhile, get on with your life. Go out. Have some fun. Don't try to force things to happen, but be open to possibilities.

Good luck.

you knw what all u can do is relize that if u were her u would go get antoher man but of course your a man so go find antoher woman nad dont worry about her u just got to forgive and forget bye bye dont let her get to u anymore u knw y because u could do so much better and she gave up u so she will regret it her whole life when shes in a house all alone and your wit someone she will think of u and say i never should have given him up so u just hold your head up high and go find the right woman there are alot of fish in the sea so relaxe your cindrella will come to u one day sighned JeNnA xOxO

Unfortunately break ups are really hard, however we grow and learn from these experiences. I was told once that when we go thru this trial in life that that leads us to the person that you are really meant to be with. Dont be discourage she probably just did you a favor. ;-)

loosing someone that you love is really tough. I am sorry, but Maybe you should try real hard to get them back. talk it out

breakups are hard dude

u seem to be attached with her

well change ur place or get urself so mcuh bust so tat u can forget her

awwww hun only time will allow you to move on with your life. try dating other people or preoccupy yourself with other things. good luck i know breakups are hard.

it may hurt you but try not seeing her. And only time heals this problem

oh

u reminded me of my old affair.

it was my 7th.