If I tell My Fiance (while I'm drunk) that I am paranoid?

In the end this might not be a bad thing. If this is your deepest concern then you don't have any major problems. That is unless you still feel for your ex. Then it's a whole new bag of worms. However, if you are truly concerned, it just shows how much you care for your current lady. Let her know the only reason you worry so much is because you want to be the best man for her. You want to do everything right and don't want to do even the slightest thing wrong. In summation, tell her you desperately want to be the perfect man for the perfect woman. Do all of this while you are sober.

No, you should have probably told her when you were sober - but the thing is done. I would work on yelling her name in bed for awhile to help smooth things over. As a matter of fact, start using her name all the time as much as possible. That should help lessen the chances that you'll call her your ex's name.

My husband called me his x wife's name when he wasn't drinking...... it just happens.... if your woman is that insecure about it,,, then approach her and tell her that the reason you told her that is cause you care for her so much that you wanted to communicate it to her.... and tell her that you love her and remember her name but that you don't think at times and it slips out..... husbands do it all the time like I said my old man did it to me then a month later called our oldest daughter by his other oldest daughter (with the first wife) by her name.. confuseion happens its not htat you are remembering your life with the otehr woman its just something that happens..... he even thought I was the one that made biscuts and gravey one night for him and they were hard as rocks... however I and he got in a little spat until he realized that it had been his x wife who had done it and we both laughed at his mindless reaction..... so tell her to read this if anything and don't take it to heart.

#1 she really dosn't want to know that stuff so don't tell her.

#2 You were drunk plain and simple. There is no to explain. Keep it simple.

tell her you were just kidding.