I want to tell the world I am pregnant expecially my boyfriends crazy ex what do you think I should do...?

all i can say is OMG u have been in the same exact situation as me and my hubby i had to look at ur user name to make sure it wasnt my hubby writting it lol

Ma hubbys ex wouldnt let him see his kid cuz she knows it will break him and was saying how my hubby was a bad dad and is evil etc untill i fell pregnant and when ma bump got big enough to see and she saw it it wipped the smile off her face infact she even tried to take martin to childline and social services wat a b i t c h any hows best bet is to let her see that he and u are happy and have moved on and always room for the little one but not her u have to tell her that nothing she does is gonna split u up and now ur having her ex baby its best that u sort childcare arrangemnts for little one and thats it nomore favours to the ex just be there for little one unfortanatly my hubby dont see his other girl nomore but i hope everything works out for u guys crap answer but i spoke from my experience

Let me tell you something that woman has hurt that child more than you ever could with your news. It's the ex that is having more trouble with it. If your boyfriend thinks it's OK then do it. Don't do it behind the exes back tell her what your doing so she can't get mad you didn't tell her. Get down on the child's level and talk to her. Let her know that she will be a big sister. Don't worry about telling he about being a half-sister just yet. Oh, about seeing the little girl your boyfriend has to set up visiting rights and that might change. She can't complain about the child visiting when the Court says she has to.

Screw the X, Why are you worrying about hurting her feeling she is an x for a reason. The daughter has every right to know that she will be having a brother or a sister. Don't let anyone Else's unhappiness come between your happiness. Good luck with the baby

As a sibling his daughter has a right to know about your having a child as for using it against the ex forget it be the better person. Anyone can be a fool show how responsible,respectful, and adult you are

You need to separate yourself from whatever problems those two are bickering about. You have no business in their divorce anyway. Always be wonderful to their child and don't fall into discussions at all with the Ex. There is no reason to .Think of your pregnancy and hibernate yourself away from all "bad" Karma or influences. You should enjoy your pregnancy in peace.

tell him that this is good news and his daughter should know that you are giving her a new sibling to play with. also tell him his ex obviously does not respect him or you so he needs to stop worrying about his ex and make sure his daughter knows and feels like she is apart of the good news.he can go to court and file for custody or visitation rights. she has no right to keep his daughter from him.

Well...my suggestion is to tell her that he is unable to help, you have a prenatal appointment with your ob/gyn,and he's driving you.

Although, I do wonder, why you feel compelled to even care about this lady? She is the mother of his child, and sounds insecure. I'd give her a break, and just tell your boyfriend to tell her to back off. And as far as his daughter, that is a courts issue. If they have joint custody, she cannot deny him that privilege.

Also, you can always tell your step-daughter that you and Daddy are having another brother or sister for her to play with...kids are great messengers. :) Good luck!

Don't use your child to be a pawn in your tift with his exgirlfriend. Besides, once the baby is born, the girlfriend and the daughter will know about the baby, won't they?

well u can accidentally send her an email with ur baby announcement or something like that.start buying baby clothes or maternity clothes when her daughter is around and whalah! kids are the best rats

you should have a baby because you love him not because his ex. but if you feel it is necesary, tell the biggest loud mouth and one of her freinds. in a casual conversatin. but be carful she might stop him from seeing his daughter all together