Why won't my wife look at me during intimate relations?

Because you put a bag on her head!

Try asking her. If you don't feel comfortable enough to talk to her about something like that you folks have problems. Some folks are just shy in bed. Some if you put them with a totally different person will scream like a howler monkey during sex. Some will open there eyes like a couple of pie pans, people are different is all there is no one way to make that happen without knowing what turns her on or blows her dress up but once again talk to the woman. I doubt unless she is a psychic that she has any clue it bothers you.

P.S. If she is Psychic could you ask her the power ball numbers for the next drawing!!

She may feel uncomfortable or self-conscious about what she is doing or feeling or how she looks. Talk to her about it. Open communication is lacking here. Assure her that you want her to fully be part of the experience ... you want her to feel pleasure and you want to see her enjoy it. Tell her it turns you on when she looks at you.

(Depending on what she says, you might want to suggest the book below)

Good luck!

Did something traumatic happen to her before you met? I know that could be one of the outcomes of experiences like that. Maybe she doesn't feel good about herself and it is effecting her forms of affection. Have you asked her?

Maybe you remind her of someone else...