Let's say you're bi - have you ever gotten into a serious relationship with a guy or a girl at any one time?

Yes to your first q,

Like any relationship there were obstacles and fights... we are after all still human.

I'm a bisexual female, and I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years. We're moving in together in August, and we're definately talking long term (marriage, house, kids, etc). Our relationship is great and I love her more every day. I'm very lucky to have her. We fight on occassion, but the trick is to figure out your fighting styles and work towards a middle ground. I would rather hash an issue out for 5 hours of screaming and tears, she would rather blow up about it, sulk for 4 hours, then come back to a terse conversation. We've managed to find a middle ground and we don't go to sleep angry. There were some huge fights around the 6 month mark (when the shine starts to wear off) but the longer we're together the more rare they get.

Before her I mostly dated men and slept with women, but some of that was a sampling issue. I met a lot of women online with the expressed purpose of sex... we would sleep together, realize we had nothing in common, and go our seperate ways. I didn't really feel comfortable in a lot of gay cliques on my campus and I was too young for the bars. Once I got older, melded into adult gay life (with booze) I had a few flings, but I was really not serious about anyone at that time in my life, so it didn't go beyond friendship and sex. I also had a three year open relationship with a guy at that time, so my emotional needs were being met elsewhere and I just wanted girls to sleep with :-)

I did have one painful 2 month relationship with a girl that was punctuated by her tendency to drink too much to cover her depression. The more time that goes by, I think she is just a lesbian, not a bisexual. Last I heard she was dating this guy that was pretty emotionally abusive to her over being bi. I think she punishes herself for being a lesbian and her low self esteem, tries to numb the pain with booze, and overall has a hard time connecting to people who really care about her but easily latches on to people who will use her. It's sad.

yea i did with my boyfriend. but we both felt so strongly about eachother we had no problem being out there. and yea it is working out very nice. we love eachother so much. we havent had a fight yet because we never bring up any thing that is fightworthy. and the only obstacle we had to hurdle is having people find out we were going out. but teh responces were the same. "you be you and ill be me" simply they were still our friends. and now i have my best friends and the man i will want to spend the rest of my life with.

I THOUGHT I LOVED MEN, AND WAS NEVER ATTRACTED WOMEN SEXUALLY, AND THEN I MET A SOMEONE WHO HAPPENED TO BE A WOMAN, AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 6 MONTHS. THIS IS THE FIRST SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP I HAVE BEEN IN, IN 2 YEARS...AND I DONT MISS MEN AT ALL. I GUESS IM BI...BUT I DONT KNOW...IT TOTALLY DEPENDS ON THE PERSON.

I tried but was really only into men

but before that I had serious relationships with women and men..now men only

Yes

im bi, been with my current girl for 3 years in august.. we fight all the time, and i mean ALL the time, some stuff is little and some stuff cud end it, we've talked about our future and even picked kids names out for adopting.. we've talked about marriage and all i want is to make her happy, i love her more every day and just wana be wit her

I divorced my ex-husband for a woman 6 yrs ago, b/c he wasen't willing to "let me try it out". I've been with women since and in my current relationship for 2yrs.

I tried but she was more of a "for show" bi, she was only bi to express guys.