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What would you do if you felt that all your bf wanted to do is have sex?

To me, it seems like all he wants to do is have sex. I'm undergoing surgery in a couple of days and he seems to think that I should have sex with him before I go..I'm having 2nd thoughts about it b/c I'm not sure as to what it could do to me. The doctor didn't say I could but I don't wanna risk it. What should I do?

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    if you have the feeling that he just wants you for sex you should talk to him and ask but it you don't want to ask look at how he reacts when you don't want to have sex.that may help you....ummm and if you don't wanna take a risk you shouldn't have sex!! you are first be4 anything!! don't let him presure you! but remember that you are always frist!

  • 2 decades ago

    Go with your feelings and DON'T HAVE SEX,

    he doesn't care about you all he cares about is himself. If he did care he wouldn't rry to talk u into doing something u don't want to do he just care about with he wants. Having surgery can be a serious thing and he should be more concern about your well being, not his lust. So because you have enough to worry about ( surgery) u should dump this over sex careless jerk and get yourself together.

    After the surgery is over u gonna need to recover and NO stress so dump him now, and think about getting through your after surgery healing

  • 2 decades ago

    You shouldn't be forced into having sex. If your bf really loves you he shouldn't be putting you in this predicament prior a surgery. Talk to him and tell him if he cares about your feelings he shouldn't expect sex. Ask him to consider YOUR feelings!

  • 2 decades ago

    it seems like u are in relationship that's not worth being in because all he wants to do is have sex. i suggest that u either tell him there needs to be more than sex in this relationship. cuz after awhile he might get bored with you and leave you for someone else. physical attraction dose not result in a lasting relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    after you have the surgery tell your boyfriend that you cant have sex for atleast three to four weeks. the way he acts after he gets the news will answer all your questions.

    if he gets mad or moody you dont need him. that will prove he only wanted to have you for sex. one other thing if he is not concerned that you are having surgery you dont need him either. good luck. if this situation goes bad, write me. i will send you some funny e-mails that will cheer you up ok my e-mail address is frank_martin91@yahoo.com write me if you need too good luck

  • Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    He sounds like an insensitve jerk to me. Have your surgery and ask the doctor to cut him out of your heart while he is at it..

  • ashez
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    Hand him a bottle of lotion, tell him to have fun, walk out and if your smart don't go back. He isn't concerned for your health @ all.

  • 2 decades ago

    dump his A$$. he doesn't love you. if he did he'd be worried about the fact that your going for surgery.

  • 2 decades ago

    Hey, if you don't want sex the say no.

  • 2 decades ago

    dump him,if that is not what you want, or talk to him and tell him how you feel.

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