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This is the clip notes version of the story. My son's father hasn't did anything for him and he's been in this world for 17 months. He'll disappear for so many months at a time and then pop back up. Since we broke up in 2010 before my son was born, he hasn't been around. His priorities have always been in the wrong place and my son deserves better than a deadbeat. He didn't ask to be here and I've been taking care of him ALONE since day 1. My question is, if I put him on child support, what rights does that give him? My son doesn't know him or his father's family bc they choose not to get to know him. I don't want my son anywhere near their house bc it's not a safe environment for him. I won't go into details why but I will say the things he'll see there he's NEVER seen here.

Looking for a friend I lost connection with some months ago...

Okay, my period came 2 days late but the entire time it was on it was strange. I didn't bleed much and the last 2 days I've been spotting and today is my last day. My boyfriend has been sick ALOT and sleeping ALOT and I've been sleeping alot and threw up only once he's tha one been doing all the throwing up. Does that mean I could possibly still be pregnant? I took a home pregnancy test 5 days b4 my period and it was negative.

I recently had unprotected sex and it was during my ovulation period. I need to know how long should I wait before taking a pregnancy test? I'm due to have my next period on March 6. Should I get the test before the 6th or after?

This doesn't have to do with anything. What do you done when you've done all you can do? What do you say when you've said all you can say? Where do you turn? Where do you go? There is no right or wrong answer. I just want to see how many people do what I do when I'm in this.

To me, it seems like all he wants to do is have sex. I'm undergoing surgery in a couple of days and he seems to think that I should have sex with him before I go..I'm having 2nd thoughts about it b/c I'm not sure as to what it could do to me. The doctor didn't say I could but I don't wanna risk it. What should I do?

Am I being low-down because my long-term bf of 3 years asked me to get my name AND his name tatooed on my right breast b/c he wants to get our name on his chest. I said no. Ladies, is this wrong if I don't think thats a good idea especially if he makes me think we won't be together forever?

For the past 2 weeks I've been sick. I've been to 2 different hospitals because 1 hadn't seen the sickness I have. Saturday, I went to the hospital and they think I may have kidney stones. Well, the thing is, my bf acts as if he doesn't care. We're 19 years old and all he does is play video games and he won't even come see me. He came to see me yesterday and stayed for 20 minutes and left to go home to PLAY VIDEO GAMES. Do you think I should make him choose between me or the video game or should I just do what I have to do to make myself better? So many things have ran through my mind and I've even considered beating the you know what out of him...Help me!

I'm only 19 and a overly grown man called me over the phone when his wife was out of town and tried to convince me to come over his house to make him dinner and I feel like thats out of order b/c he's married and I'm engaged. He knows my boyfriend and we even belong to the same church. What should I do about it? Should I tell him that I found something wrong with that or not say anything? It's funny to me b/c he never calls me when his wife is at home.

I feel as though I'm in a relationship alone but I don't know how to tell the better half. What should I do?

My boyfriend and I are both college students. I graduate next year and he's transferring to Vanderbilt this year. When I graduate he wants me to go to but I'm not sure if I should. Can anyone one give me some advice?

I am doing a assignment for one of my college course and it requires me to list in detail about my arguement. It is a debating class and I have to convice the audience that to agree with me in being against abortion. If you can be of any help I really would appreciate it.