How badly do you let a friend treat you and still be there if she needs you later?

I'd talk to her. Maybe she didn't mean to treat you badly, she was just so absorbed in her happiness, she forgot about everything else. If she got back in contact with you, then maybe she's learned her lesson, and knows that you would be a good friend to have in her life. Just make sure that if she seems like she's trying to use you, that you don't give in and let her step all over you. just be a friend who will talk, not a friend that will contribute to her "get back out of trouble" fund.

A friend is a friend, you don't lose them they just go away for awhile they are like little puppies, they might get lost but sooner or later they will show up on the front porch ready to lick your face and hands.

Be there in time of need for your friend and tell this friend if she ever do you this way again you are gonna beat her like a red headed step child.

If she calls I think that means that the mess her life has become has her looking back on her mistakes and realizing where she went wrong and which relationship she should have treasured. So if she calls, I think you should welcome her back with forgiving and open arms. But if she doesn't call, don't go out of your way to try to contact her to comfort her because obviously that means she doesn't see the error of her ways. So pretty much the ball is in her court. Just wait and see if she calls.

Go with your heart not your mind. It sounds like she was blindly in love and may really need her friends now it's all fallen apart.

She has neglected you but she hasn't been cruel or deliberately unkind. I would call her and see if she's OK.

I wouldn't cancel my own social life for her, she might not be around for long before she does it again!

I have this friend and she treats me like ****.... and everytime she has a fight with her bf... i'm always there... But now i'm done with her... She is a little ***** and i can't stand her... Don't let anyone walk all over you...She never invited you to her wedding... If she calls say your to busy to talk... Like she was to busy to call you in over year... Trust me your better off with out her... You made a year with out her...

Gurl talk to her she was ur friend before and u know that we all do some crazy **** when we fall in love and well what it looks to me shes goin threw a hard time and she needs some one to help her so just to to her and see what happens!!

Well, ask yourself, would you have done the same to her? If yes, take her call. If no, tell her you're busy. She sounds totally awful, I wouldnt let someone, anyone treat me like that.

ignore the call....but i can't really talk b/c i went out w/ this guy last year that my friend and i both liked...well to my question, he responded w/ the yes i wanted to hear...i was afraid to tell my friend b/c i thought it'd hurt her feelings....so one day i wanted to talk to her about it and tell her sorry...well she started goin off on me about how disappointed she was in me...screamin at me all the way down the hallway...rude! and then i dumped the guy (not b/c of her ofcourse) and then i found out from another friend that this gurl had told her mom and they both called me a backstabber....well then i found out that this gurl had asked my ex boyfriend out..the same guy that we both liked in the first place, after she'd went off on me! it pissed me off..but the fact that my ex told her hell no was pretty funny. lol.

i would try to be there for her, but do not get too involved since the next time something happens, she will probably shut you out again. do not completely ignore her though.

I've had friends like that. I just forget about them, and move on.