If you found the love of your life, but...?

Well I guess if I found my soulmate in another man that can only mean that I am not happy with the situation that I am in. weather I had all the money in the world would not matter to me because money comes and goes, but true love is everlasting, so yes I would leave my spouse for the chance to live out the rest of my life with the man that makes my world complete!!!

God Bless!

How do you know this other person is your soul mate? Is that not what you thought when you married your husband? And now you are saying you were wrong? You may be wrong again and giving up a marriage you didn't say was bad. Maybe you and he just let it get old. Like having a hamburger everyday the same way. try putting a different topping on it. Or doing something different. Go to a B&B for the weekend. Try some role play. Experiment with B&D(lightly though). Go out to the country side and boink out in the open under the moonlight in the back of a truck bed. I think your soulmate is more a product of lost of luster than a perfect match. The same would happen with him after time. You'd get bored and want to move on again.

That would be a tough decision. Some people would say, always follow your heart, life is too short, if you really think this is the one. I think that you should think about something though. How did you feel about your husband before you got married? Did you not feel like he was your soul mate? Well if you got married to the man, chances are you felt that he was your soul mate. So, ask yourself something, don't you think this feeling for this guy will eventually fade? Has your husband been with you through thick and thin? Do you love your husband but feel that you are not in love with him? Bingo, the butterfly feeling eventually fades with everyone. It is a different kind of love when you have been with someone for a while, it's more like a really strong bond. You feel comfortable around your husband, you feel like you can be yourself around him, and he still loves you. He more than likly feels the same way towards you that you feel about him. Bottom line... never do anything that you may just regret. What if your "love" fades with this other man years down the road? Will you repeat the cycle of thinking that you have found your soul mate, and then suffer from being lonley later on in life because you had to constantly stray? Will you think back later in life... what "if" I would have stayed married to so and so? It's all up to you, but remember that this feeling is at the beginning of most relationships, try to distinguish the difference between this feeling, and the feeling you have with your husband. Best of wishes...

When you got married, didn't you promise to be faithful? I've been there, done that. Wouldn't do it again. Marriage is a contract that really has nothing to do with who your soul mate is. Marriage is an agreement to stay with someone and work together through the tough things in life. Being attracted to someone else happens all the time. I've probably met my soul mate 5 or 6 times. I just enjoy the meeting, the sharing, and tell my wife about it so we can enjoy the friends we make together. Thinking of marriage by the 'ones that got away' is like buying a car and then trading it in the next day because you can't stick to a commitment and because you think of everything you do as something that you purchased and you can just throw it away when you are tired of it. Turn off the g**#amn TV and stop thinking life is like a soap opera with a new crisis to create every day to make it interesting and sell coffee to lovers. If you want your marriage to be better, YOU have to make it better, it isn't some magical rain that falls on you.

Thats what people r getting selfish. i mean, u found ur soulmate but what about ur spouse for whom u r everything. we r getting so selfish that to thing breaking relation as its a small n disposable.

i wont leave my wife, no matter any angel or any better comes in my way. wife is wife no one can stand infront of her. I think this is right attitude. If relation has problems which this attitude cant solve then think to change, its after every damn possible way to keep relation. If u have such case then only think to change. But in good relation, 99.99% NO- is the answer for ur question.

U just can keep that third person as good frnd, with sufficient distance.

let's hope youre not going through a slow time in your marriage. Having a history with your spouse is something you will have to work long and hard on to have again. How does this other person feel about you ? If you're the only one in love thats something you need to know, right?

Stick with you spouse... you'll be glad in the long run

If I'm married and comfortable, and my husband is not doing anything bad at all.. why would I leave him? Why not treat your husband as your soulmate... If you're married to him, he should be the love of your life, and no one else... and then, you'll be happy, and at peace...

If it's exactly as your question states, YES, I'd leave a husband for a soul mate.

If you feel that strong a connection with one over the other, and truly feel he is your soul mate, then it's worth it. Your husband wouldn't deserve to be unhappy or be with an unhappy wife. He may really be hurt, and I take vows seriously, but we live only once. (or so we think)

So, be careful what you choose, and make sure you choose for the right reasons!

If i felt as he was the one then id leave a marrige 4 him... u only get 1 soulmate...u can marry many times...trust me

that depends i guess on if you have kids and that sort of thing but if you all just got married young and its only you two then i would seriously consider it i would also be sure this person is absolutly for sore your soul mate because remember you are breaking someones heart dont forget how it felt to have yours broken if your going to leave your husband for yuor soul mate be upfront from the begining about dont go behind the guys back and cheat on him because you dont have the balls to end it but you do need to choose one and leave the other alone