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My Best friend?

My best friend is being really mean to me. It seems like she only cares about herself sometimes. Don't get me wrong she is fun to hang out with and she can make you laugh,but lately,since she got a new boyfriend she has been pushing people around. I tried to tell her what i thought and she just called me overdramatic. I think something is wrong but im not sure.HELP?!?!?!

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Get used to it. You will probably be this way one day. It just seems when people couple up we can't keep up with friendships. It isn't we lose interest. We are just focusing our attentions elsewhere. And you being the outsider are going to be ultra sensitive to things now, because you probably miss her. If she is truly selfish, then you shouldn't concern yourself with her. But if she just has selfish moments...wait her out because she is your best friend and you would want her to be patient with you.

  • 2 decades ago

    Either she is a very selfish, self-centered person, OR, she has found herself in a dangerous relationship she thinks she can't get out of, you can't help help her unless she lets you, let her know you disapprove of how she is acting, but assure her of your enduring love and friendship, then just back off for a while, if she IS in trouble, she'll eventually tell you, if not, move on and let her throw her life away along with her friends. There is nothing else you can do.

  • 2 decades ago

    Just as anyone that has entered a new relationship it may seem like more of their attention is being drawn from you because now your not the only one in your friends life. Then again she could just be rude and for some odd reason think just because she has someone that makes her queen. don't worry about it let her realize whats she is doing and hopefully she will make things right.

  • 2 decades ago

    Relationship or not, you're to good for her and do yourself a big favor and look around and you'll find a true friend who won't let any relationship get in the way of your friendship. Your friends guy must be a real jerk to allow her to treat you like crap. Dump her and move on to a better friend. Best of luck

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  • 2 decades ago

    I guess since she has found a new boyfriend , she does not need anyone around her. so i think once u get a guy you should also treat her the same.

  • 2 decades ago

    don't worry, they need their time alone and when you get the chance to have your own b/f you'll understand her, that happens to pretty much everybody however you mention is fun to hang around with her and you claimed she is your best friend she is just fun to be with if she would be your best friend she would care more for you and what you think, best friends don't let down best friends

  • 2 decades ago

    I advise you, "By all means marry if you get a good wife you will be happy but if you get a bad one you will become a philosopher.

  • 2 decades ago

    If this is a new relationship you have to understand that women seem to cling to their partners because it's NEW and EXCITING. give her some time, she will come back.

  • 2 decades ago

    once a women finds her man, she seems to forgot about her real friends who cares so much about her

  • km
    Lv 5
    2 decades ago

    thats what happens when people firstget into relationships, they tend to neglect everyone around them

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