Dating man for 2 yrs. Live approx 20 mi apart. He rarely drives to my place, should I stop mking the drive?

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Live approx 20 miles apart.  He rarely drives to my place.  I drive to his place (with my daughter) and then we go out and do something. He has only on a couple occasions come to pick us up.  We both work, and I have the additional responsibilites of rasing my daughter. Should I stop making the weekend drive to his place?  Gas prices are high, so he says he'll give me gas $$$. I have always wondered why he doesn't like to come out to my place.  What are your thoughts on this?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you are a booty call on wheels.

Anonymous · Answer

Very interesting.  Does he give you any other syptoms of him possibly not liking you as much as you do him?  I mean, there are so many issues there, maybe his car is unreliable, maybe it isn't a "family" car, maybe he knows people in your neighborhood, etc.  You never know, I see a lot of questions on here where peope are just afraid of asking a person something, don't be scared, find out from him.

Anonymous · Answer

He probably feels more comfortable at his place with you, thats where he is used to being, as long as he takes you out to eat and pays for it, you know movies and such it would work out

Anonymous · Answer

if you think he is good for you and you daughter's lifes then maybe you should start considering maybe taking it a step farther and moving in together.

Anonymous · Answer

yes stop making the drive
if he wants to see you he can for awhile

cutie pie · Answer

20 mi. isn't that far apart...maybe you should just confront him, ask him about it

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Dating man for 2 yrs. Live approx 20 mi apart. He rarely drives to my place, should I stop mking the drive?

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