is it ok to date my step sister??

She is JUST your step-sister. It sounds like you're both consenting ADULTS. Sheesh, these idiots who say/think you're blood related or it is against the law, OMG!!! There is NO blood relation in step-sister/step-brother. Two people who aren't related get married and their kids are step-brother/sister. What fools!!! I say go for it!! Life is short!! You might regret it later if you don't!! Good luck.

My Step Sister

I would say it's not a good idea. It will cause family strife for one thing. For another for her to just ask you to meet her in the shower, just like that, without being in a relationship. Plus the fact that she brought up the money issue. She probably wants you to take care of her and her kids. This doesn't mean she's a bad person, but she's probably a little bit desparate. Find someone you aren't related too, even by marraige.

You are not realated by blood, just as if you and your father had met a mother/daughter couple at the same time and started dating them. I don't think it is advisable to do though. It brings feelings into situations and family situations that they just don't belong. You will always have to see her, be around her, and if it didnt' work out that just might not be a good thing. I think it is best to keep a brother/sister role, one that can last a life time and be very meaningful. She is also on the rebound so you put together...stepsister/rebound? no I don't think so!

You are not related in any way by blood - so why couldn't you date her, except that I think you are kind of young to date a woman with two children. But Budd - if you really like her - I say go for it and see if you can be responsible for a instant family.

Well.... as long as there is absolutely no blood relation there!! Just hang off on it for a while mate and maybe oyu might get over it eventualy and fine someone a little more acceptable to society!! Just have a good think about it!! and our heart will tell you the rest.

I think it would mess with your mind if you've accepted her as a sister as you say. But it sounds like she's looking for rebound action and turning to you for it, which is irresponsible because after the "wham bam thank you, stepbrother", you have to keep on seeing and meeting eachother and family reunions, weddings, funerals, etc.

This is a hard one, think how would your dad and step mum feel about it? You must think of them first. If they would go mad then walk away now before you fall too hard! It sounds like you have feelings for her already. Good luck and all the best.

It will be the peak of immorality. The very idea sounds very disgusting. How can anyone think of incest? Such ideas can originate in sick minds alone. Socities crumble and crash where such dirty things take place. My answer is an empathic NO.

There is no blood ties that says you can't...

But you should ask yourself is this worth a family feud, possibly. Look what's involved, your family, her family, not to mention maybe screwing up the kids. Calm the horomones and really think about it, I'd say.