Husband's only!!?

No it wouldn't bother me. I have absolute faith and trust in my wife. If she had 50 men and 3 women it wouldn't bother me! Most of my wifes friends are males already. I think that sometimes women get along better with men as friends versus other women. I hope that if your married, your hubby has this type of confidence and faith in you also. Interesting question!

Guys are jealous creatures. When your wife has men she talks to it's kinda suspecious. Not to many married women have guy friends they like to talk to. It's usually only women that're dating who keep guy friends. As a married woman you usually don't have much in common with a single guy so I would logically think that the two wouldn't be friends unless there was some sort of physical attraction going on. If my wife were to have men on her messenger I would be a little concerned but overall I would trust her.

I have quite a few male friends, and my hubby is secure in the knowledge that I would NEVER cheat on him! People need a variety of friends both male & female to make life interesting and worthwhile. If we only had single-sex friends, how do we cope when out partners friends visit? Do we go to the bedroom or go out so we don't interact with friends of the opposite sex? Or what happens if we want to visit someone? Should only the one who is the same sex go? If you are secure in a relationship and have complete trust, then what's the problem in oppposite-sex friends? If you don't, then maybe you should look at your own insecurity or decide wether you really trust your partner.

i no you said husbands only but i have a couple men on my list and my hubbie dont mind and he has like 90 percent of females on his list and im ok with it if it bothers you talk to your wife read her messages

No, I wouldn't mind. I have a lot of women on my IM list too and the wife doesn't mind either. If you have a secure marriage then there should be no problem with it.

First, I have many ladies friends, so I don't think bad about it. Second, I trust my wife. She is a good woman and the only remote possibility that she will ever cheat on me, will be my fault. Because I didn't care enough to make her happy.

Well, you know what they say. Men and women can't just be "friends". Your husband knows you're probably "just friends" but as a man, he knows what they're all after no matter what they claim. Ask them for an HONEST answer and see what they say, you might be surprised

First I trust my wife, so I would give her the benefit of the doubt.

Second, I love taking my wife out and "exhibiting" her wares...It is a turn on for me and her to wear revealing clothing.

Third, it also turns me on to think she may "hot chat" with other men. (As far as I know she has never and would never...but the thought has me going now!!...)

Thanks

Yes, Would you be mad if your husband had females on his imail list .Im sure you already checked it out .

No female friends ,Right .

If we love our wives we would`nt need to talk to strange females . You are supposed to be the ones we can talk to .

We love you and can share our lives with you.

I think there are two approaches

1- your husbands sense of self security and trust.

2- your respect of his feelings

not an easy balance some times he should trust you should respect

good luck