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OK guys,let's say you find out your g/f was a hooker before she met you, would that bother you?
I was just watching Jerry Springer (I know, I have no life) and there was a hooker on there and I wondered if guys would care about something like that. Just curious.
37 Answers
- lunaticLv 72 decades agoFavorite Answer
Depends how I found out. If I found out from her, then we could talk.
- GRUMPYLv 72 decades ago
Yes, I'd have concern with it. And I guess more than anything is because as a hooker you don't know the person your going to have sex with. As such there is a good probability that your gonna get some kind of STD or worse. This being she could very easily pass this on to you. Look at this way, DO YOU TRUST your LIFE on a condom? I say this because AIDS KILLS. So if you trust your life on a condom, then go for it. I'll sit back and enjoy life WITHOUT YOU.
- 2 decades ago
I am a female but if the female I dated were a hooker before I would go balistic! I know someone who was in a sistuation like that where the girl never mentioned it and ended up being a druggie and a whore. Hope it doesn't happen to often in real life! Leave it for Jerry!
- Anonymous2 decades ago
Yes of course it would bother me. First of all I would even be afraid to kiss her (even though I know that you really can't catch anything from that) but further more I would constantly be bugged by the question if she is faithful. (It's a psychological thing.. Even if I know her that well at the point I learn of her past that it shouldn't bug me). And finally, (the most compelling point). Even though it's legal here, a women who sells her body for money must be damaged goods. And since I always look for a long term relationship, I know that it could never work out with a woman like that.
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- Anonymous2 decades ago
Well I'm not a guy, but I do have an opinion on this: While a past life should not have a huge influence on a present or future relationship, it also shows a person's beliefs, values and morals.
People change and so may her beliefs - but past behavior is a good indication of the future and it should at least be told to the new boyfriend so that he can make his own decision.
If I were a man, I would not want to date someone who used to sell her body for sex - let alone what diseases she may be carrying!
- DAVERLv 42 decades ago
I wouldn't date a whore, or a former whore...sure we all make bad choices in life from time to time...but that is just one of those choices that are way past 'just being a bad desision'...especailly if the girl wants to get married someday. It's like selling the present meant for your future husband...
Plus, it's a cop-out way of life. Most people have to work hard to make money the right way. These whores take the easy way out and sell their bodies to make money. I don't know how anyone can sink that low in life to do that...
- 2 decades ago
What the b/f doesn't know, won't hurt him...unless of course the g/f hooker has a STD! If I was the g/f, I wouldn't offer up that info....if I found out, it would be curtains for certain!
- 2 decades ago
Yes it whould.
But i think every one should have a 2ed chance. I whould keep a eye on her behaver lison verey carfule to what she says. Make sher she was tested of cores. Ask her lots of quetions. It whould take time but i think i could.
- 2 decades ago
Why would something she did in the past bother u. It's the past. There's bonuses though..... She is a pro. And u get for free what others have paid for
- 2 decades ago
yes it would bother me greatly. Not only because of the disease factor, but because it would make me wonder what type of person she is, how could she think so little of herself as to sell her body. I would also wonder if one day she would get tired of having sex with the same person and leave.
- 2 decades ago
It would depend.. that is a big thing to try and get past.. i'd make sure she was clean and whatnot and then try and get over the fact that she professionally banged dudes for money...