I saw my 12 year boy holding an younger girl about 11 on his lap.?

I think you need to be having the big talk with him now before he makes some mistakes later on. That doesn't mean that you have to put a stop to his behavior around, but let him know about appropriate behaviors around young ladies.

are you crazy? He's 12. You're his mother. Have a chat with him. He's too young for that kind of thing. No one asked you if you were "ready for this puberty stuff." You should have thought of that when you decided to have a baby. It's part of being a mom. Now go be a parent. And stop pretending to see nothing. Honestly!

IT's time to have a chat with your son. Not a bad talk just tell him you like that girl and she seems nice. Be open and honest with him. It's probaby innocent but just keep an eye on him. Does he have a good father/or father figure in his life? I know my girlfriends husband died and left her with three kids.. one being a young boy. When that young boy grew up there where some sex issues that he was not comfortable talking to his mom about so he would come and talk to my hubby.

Just relax mom :)

You done with your raising, now all you can do is protect and help them make good choices. If you "put a stop to it" all you will do is drive him underground, and he will never, ever come to you with a problem, you will in one stroke make yourself the enemy for years to come. If he is starting to see girls, then it's time for the birds and the bee's talk, the std talk, and the her dad will cut off your blank talk. That should protect ya for a year or so till he learns better in the school system.

simply talk to him and let him know the right from wrong behabiour of a 12 year old boy.

LEAVE HIM ALONE SHE WAS JUST SITTIN ON HIS LAP THAT WHAT KIDS DO AND HES A YOUNG MAN LET HIM GROWUP ITS TIME TO START LETTIN THE LEASH GO U CANT HOLD HIM FOREVER

Keep an eye on him he's male after all

Mind your own business. If you raised him right you should have nothing to worry about.

Calm down, there are much worse things.

If you haven't already,it's time to give him the talk