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during sex do guys like women to be in control or not?what do you prefer?

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    in the adolecence phase, I dont think that the guy realy cares about the sensitive of things. As you get older you tend to try and hold onto the things that are important to you. Thus...the man goes out of his way for his woman. I do that when I ever I can and it makes me feel good knowing that I'm the one to beat. Plus I know that no-one out there can compete with me. I'm cocky but I know my girl. Plus I dont have to worry about her trying to find something better. She knows that I try and succeed just because I want her and no one else.(not to sound like an idiot...men dream about woman all the time. It takes a real man to not react) so yes a woman in control makes me excited! I like pleasing my wife! Now all I got to do is get her to be as "in the mood" as often as I am!

  • I think it depends on the guy, and on his mood at the time. Some guys prefer to be "in control", all the time. Some really get turned on by the woman "making all the moves", or at least the "first move". It really depends on the individual. If you're not sure (about the one you are with), ask him. A great sex life can be achieved through good communication between the people involved.

    You asked what we "prefer", as women, and I cannot speak for all women, but as for me, again it depends- on the person I'm with, and the "mood".

  • 2 decades ago

    I am a sub in my relationship so of course my man like to be in control and is always. Once in a blue moon will I take control and it is only with his permission. I am old fashion - men are in charge.

  • 2 decades ago

    i personally like when a man is in control because it gives me a sense of emotion.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    i like to enjoy it no matter who's in control it is not a take charge thing as long as we are both getting satisfaction

  • 2 decades ago

    i'm a guy, and i love being in control.

    And when it's the relationship itself, i love when the girl is in control.

    that way i'm dominated in the relationship and then i get a real kick out of being in control when i'm inside her

  • 2 decades ago

    I like the woman to call the shots

  • JULIE
    Lv 7
    2 decades ago

    yes they do like it and i am the control master

  • 2 decades ago

    yes,,that way you don't have to tell them what to do,,they already know what they want,and they will tell us what they want,,helps us to figure out women,,no more guessing,,,,,,,,

    would be better to take turns,,,but its nice to sit back and let them do what they want and enjoy the ride!

  • 2 decades ago

    um both want his or her in them control

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