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Family Law- I raised my twin sons for three years on my own. PLEASE READ?

My ex girlfriend left to pursue a drug habbit, leaving me with twin boys that were mine( i sighned the birth certificate). Her mother some how forced me to take a paternity test and they never tested the mother. The judge took them and i have not seen my sons in a few years as i was told that i have no longer any rights to see them.. I love them, raised them and want them in my life regardless. Though the paternity test can be questioned because the mother never was tested. PLEASE HELP... no attorny will take the case because of my lack of money.

Update:

the mother of the childern has no contact with the boys,( this is her own choice) they are now turning 8 and were taken at age 3. The judge still resides on the bench and I have made several attempts for visitation. I am told that you cannot appeal a family court decision.

What is a legal age that I can approach them to say hello to them?

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    Sounds like you are NOT a biological parent, but somehow raised the children as a custodial parent. That is not good news for you. Generally you have little chance to win any kind of visitation.

    I am sorry you will probably have to wait until the children reach the legal age.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    first you took the paternity test, ( I have to ask why)

    in some states the father listed on the birth certificate after a certain time retains his rights, but only in a few states.

    Sadly there is little you can do legally. I would try and talk to the mother of the children and try and work out a deal with her.

  • 2 decades ago

    The mother's maternity is rarely questioned for the obvious reasons, it sounds like the paternity test showed you were not the father.

    What did the judge say when he took them, when and where did you learn that you had no rights to them? How old are they? Is the mother done with her drug habit, how did she get the children from you after that?

    Really, one needs more information to provide a reasonable answer for your question.

    Sounds like a terrible thing for you and the children to go through. I hope you're all ok.

  • 2 decades ago

    Im not sure on this one but i believe that since your name is on the birth certificate you are a legal guardian of course and therefor you have rights to the children. but whoever has the children at this time most likely has some kind of connection with the children if they are with them. (not sure if its the mother's mother or an adopted family). Overall you have rights to the children. You did sign the birth certificate. It all depends now on how lenient the judge is and how connected you really are. Just so you know i am just an ordinary person who knows a lot about law so i might be slightly wrong. definitly listen to others opinions!!

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  • 2 decades ago

    Can you be more specific? How did the paternity test come out? Are they not your sons? What state are you in? You need to post this information because laws vary from state to state.

  • ditre
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    paternity tests dont need the mother unless your testing the mothers actual blood relation to the kids which is kinda obvious, they only need the father's DNA and the kid's DNA to test wheither he is the actual father of the kids

  • ?
    Lv 5
    2 decades ago

    omigosh I feel horrible for you! You are the legal father and you should get a state attorney to cover you. Check ammendment 6 and fet back to the state.

  • 2 decades ago

    Why should the mother get tested? Unless you are alleging that she didn't give birth to them, I don't see how her DNA matters. Are you alleging that third party children were switched with yours?

  • 2 decades ago

    Maybe there's an attorney who will take the case 'pro bono'.

    Free

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