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I have a problem with my sons father. Can anyone help?

My son loves his dad and wants to see him. His dad picks him up every saturday and brings him home late sunday nights. The problem is every weekend my son comes home as sick as a dog. My son now wants to be with his dad but doesn't want to stay overnight anymore because he's tired of getting sick there all the time. He doesnt want to hurt his dads feelings. Not to mention the father is a borderline mental case. Hygeine and home cleanliness is an issue with the father. Which is why I think my son is getting sick there. I'm afraid if I push the issue, my ex will file for full custody and take my son away. Yet my son doesnt want to live with his dad. Or I'm afraid my ex will tell my son good bye in retalliation. Breaking my sons heart. Then blame himself for complaining. My son is 15 but more like a 9yr old emotionally, he has learning disabilities, and is very sensitive. What can I do? And no, I can't afford a lawyer, I alrady checked into the fees. Sigh!

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Pack a picnic basket of food you have prepared for your son for the weekend. Also By some antibacterial wipes for your son to use on his hands before he eats.You could go clean the bathroom and kitchen yourself. Also send a sleeping bag and clean pillow along. Are you sure it is uncleanliness that is the problem? Is your son sick from germs? What are his symptoms. Sometimes sexual molestation will shoe it self in this way. Take your son to a doctor and discuss this problem with him. This could be more serious than you think.Take action woman you have the power. You owe it to your son to be the responsible parent here and get to the bottom of this!! Today not next mo or next year!!!!!

  • 2 decades ago

    I WOULD SAY THAT ON WEEKENDS HE IS INVOVELED IN A ACTIVITY THAT HE LIKED TO BE IN SO YOU SIGNED HIM UP AND BECAUSE YOUR SON IS GOING TO BE SO BUSY NOW I WOULD SUGGEST THAT HE COMES OVER AND VISIT DURING THE WEEK OR JUST TELL YOUR SON TO TELL HIS DAD THAT HE JUST WANTS TO GO AND GET SOMETING TO EAT OR GO TO THE SHOW I WOULD MAKE IT LIKE HE IS SO ACTIVE HE BARELY HAS TIME FOR HIMSELF.. GOOD LUCK

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