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Why you made your dream girl become your backup?

My ex said I am his dream girl,close to his ideal,He loves me and its so hard for him to get over me.But if what he said was true,why he made me become his backup girl?Do men are like this all the time?and why?

Update:

I ended this relationship when he proposed to me.But it was too late because I was moving out of state.Then he made a new gf right away.I wanted him back but he refused to break up with his new gf.But he made it clear that he wanted me to be around.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    Did he break up with you or you break up with him? There is a reason he is your ex . If he did the breaking up and you were really his dream girl, he would have gone no where. He's trying to play the "it's not you, it's me" thing to avoid having to lay it on the line that he no longer wants to be with you. If you were the one who ended the relationship perhaps he does believe you embody most of the things he wanted in a female...everything except the ability to remain.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    this redd yeah that offer is on 4 u and i never made my dream girl my backup she was either my girl or she wasn't

  • 2 decades ago

    I would answer this but am not sure what you mean by backup girl. If you mean rebound then tell him to sod off!

  • 2 decades ago

    Because your're not really his dream girl. The truth hurts, but you already knew this anyway.

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  • 2 decades ago

    yeah their always like that.just because they think they can do whatever they want!

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