To be or not to be...in love, is that the question?

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we know that there is no other person for us, we are beyond commited, and we are ready to setttle down, and make our own home, with eachother forever! But Our families are telling us both to wait and live together...we are both (my fiancee and I) christian, but our families are not as religeous as we are... My fiancee and a I are both a product of divorce, and both of our mother are remarried, They (our moms) have life experiance from marrying young and divorcing with chldren...........so should we do the christian thing and marry, or do as our parrents say and use there experiance?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Nope i would not live together first at all. Do not live together until you are married. Stick by your Christian beliefs and God will bless your lives and your marriage because of it. Do what you know in your heart is the right thing to do in the sight of God!

extra_37 · Answer

Marrying young?  How young?  Twenties?  If you are truly committed to each other and can support yourselves, I think you should get married.
You COULD get a  2 bedroom apartment and live together while still being true to your christian beliefs.  That way, you could see how the other really lives day-to-day.
I got married at 24 and my wife was 23.  That was 21 years ago.

curious rudy · Answer

It's better to have loved than to not loved at all.

Only you know in your heart what YOU want for your life.
I think your parents are just being cautious and don't want you to be dissolution about marriage.
consider the possibility that perhaps you'll end up as they,.
I hope not you sound very sure about what you want ,BUT.
think about it seriously

olderbutwiser · Answer

If you are under 21, don't even think about getting married. Do what your parents are telling you to do. They are your friends, not your enemy. Trust them!!

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To be or not to be...in love, is that the question?

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