what should i do my sister-inlaw?

Yeah it seems like your sister in law doesn't want you two together! Why would he get mad at you for telling her how you feel? For him to not want to have sex with you or stay with u then she must have told him something about you. If your husband is going to take her side over his own wife then kick that dog to the curve and stop stressing. Tell your sister in law that you donot want her back at your house because she is causing problems

There's nothing worse than having to choose between two loves. But when it came to that, he didn't make the decision. You're married. He has an obligation to make sure there is peace in his household, especially when it revolves around him. She overreacted and it's not your fault. You were honest and that's a good thing. Tell him to talk to you. personally, I would move out and tell him that it hurts me that he would choose his sister over me. But I think that's a little harsh, considering I am a little sister myself. It's up to you.

information flash : your sister in regulations sister is likewise your sister in regulation. Tadahhh! Your nevertheless appropriate by ability of marriage... you'll desire to communicate about ur with your relations first. They probable gained't like it.

sounds like ur husband doesnt notice ur feelings very well, whyd u get married to someone who doesnt pay attention to u?