For Girls only, What are the qualities that you look for in a guy?

well, basically - motivation, inner will, nerdyness/close to as you defined humble/, ability to listen to people rather than forcing his opinion, well, smb who just makes you feel needed

I used to have high expectations- and realized that it did not work.

It is going to be hard for you to actually get a honest answer from girls now a days. Honestly girls want nice cars, nice bodies, and money. Yet they are the ones that end up alone at the end. Girls now a days dont realize all of those material objects dont last. For me i love a man with a good sence of humor, out going, down to earth, a man who is able to talk and hold a good conversation, a man that can make you feel liek he is not only your man but a bestfriend. A man that can make me laugh. At the end those are all the qualities every man or women should have in a relationship. Those are the one who will remain happy forever.

First off, confidence is a necessity. Do not expect to get a girl saying, "poor me. my life sucks." Just wont happen. I think it is also important to have direction in your life and some sort of ambition. A girl will definitely look for this is she wants to get serious. For me personally, I want a guy who can have a good time. And someone who will make me a better person. Sounds easy enough... but it must be done without being cheesy or fake. So basically just be yourself and don't try too hard. Guys who try to hard are a turn off bc the girl does not feel challenged. So, pay a girl a compliment or ask her on a date to see if she is interested... and go from there.

A man that a girl can connect with mentally, a man with intellect, sense of humor, good character, honorable, easy going, and confidence is very important as well, because if a man is confident he is able to achieve anything in life, and accomplish his goals without forgetting his heart. If a heart is empty, the head is no good.

I would want a guy that is creative or at least is willing to do creative things once in a while. I look for a guy who is himself not what others expect him to be. I don't want guys who think they know it all because who really does know it all? I like a guy who doesn't mind explaining and re-explaining things that are second nature to him. (What's a clutch do again?) And looks are also important. I like dark hair, dark eyes and some muscles. I have found that even though you and someone else have so much in common, if you are not attracted to each other, it will not work out.

External qualities are not all that important to me, the more beautifull a man's soul is the more handsome he becomes. Personality, the ability to make me laugh, intelligence, able to carry a conversation on a number of topics, having a lot in common helps but I want them to be their own person not a carbon copy of myself, HONESTY... I have found this to be very hard to find in a man.

basically what you said. I dont like mean men or fake. and it seems like a lot of them know what your lookin for in a man and they fake like thats what they are. then a few months down the line after they know they got you they do a complete turn around into a jerk!!and then it makes it hard to leave him cuz you have in the back of your head oh in the beginning he was so sweet, i know he is capable of being the way i want him, so maybe he go back to mr. nice guy but it never happens!!well there is my life story!!!

what i look for in a guy, is a sense of humor is the major one, he has to know how to make silly or not so silly jokes and doesn't mind laughing at himself, has to be kind, loving, smart, respectful to others, honesty, someone i can be myself around, who is supportive of me, who is generally my best friend if not boyfriend. if he can be romantic and passionate too, that would be awesome.

i look for a guy who can take a joke, who doesnt get mad or jealous easily, understanding, good sense of humor, a gentleman, not 100% but somewhat, knows what the word NO means

I look for, intelect, kindness, and the thing that matters most to me... Sense of humor. He's got to make me laugh.

Sense of humor, honesty, sensitivity(but not a pussy), he needs to be compassionate and loving and ambitious, goal oriented and open minded.