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Why does my ex want to be friends?

She broke it off several months ago saying dont call her any longer, but now she emails me everyone once in a while complaining that I never call her any more. What up with that?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    unless there are kids involved id say dont do it... tell her to kick rocks~

  • 2 decades ago

    She's probably lonely and wants to know that she can still have you if she wants. More than likely she was over your relationship and either had someone else in mind and things didn't work out, or she just realized she wasn't going to be able to get w/ anyone else. So she falls back to a person she is/was comfortable with and thinks will take her back, no questions asked. However, she doesn't want to really be with you, she just wants companionship til the next time she's tired of your relationship and it starts all over again.

  • 2 decades ago

    She wants to keep you around because she knows that you are a good guy. I think eventually she will want to try and start a new relationship with you if things don't go well in her other relationships.

    I would just talk to her through emails. Men and women think that they can end relationships just because and then try and get back in good with you and start over again.

    The question you have to ask yourself is do you want to be friends with her or do you still need time to heal and decide what you want. Seeing that you two are not together anymore its all about you and not you and her.

  • 2 decades ago

    As girls we change our minds alot. We are slaves to our hormones sometimes (sad but true). She does not hate you, it is just that she might miss your friendship. Sometimes we are better friends with other people, and for some reason we are better with romantic relationship with others. This is a big world, and sometimes it is nice to know either if you are a boy or a girl that there are people who like you for who you are and you are not alone in this cruel world. Or just maybe regrets what she has done and wants another chance. Either way just pray about it and you will find your answer. Good luck either way :) lol see all of us girls are complicated sometimes, but yal like a challenge lol

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  • 2 decades ago

    she wants her independence from a relationship but she still wants you around. i have done that we broke up but i still wanted to see what my ex was doing or if he moved on before me. take it from a women you decide what you want to do whether or not you want to talk to her or not. be up front do not lead her on and tell her like it is.

  • 2 decades ago

    take it frome me girls are crazy they dont thank like us. if they say they still want to be friends it to make them feel better.

    ex- is ex for a reason

  • 2 decades ago

    She's just being annoying she probably wants u back

  • 2 decades ago

    She either wants to be with you or enjoys your company.

  • 2 decades ago

    seal like you or she want you to think that she seal like you is it working i think it is what you need i be here for you

    Source(s): ill healp you
  • 2 decades ago

    Probably wants sex..... whatever happens don't be tempted. been there, done it - even whilst she was with her new boyfriend.

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