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QUESTION with ex-bf PLEASE read!!!?

Hey ok I will make this short so u will read it...

ok ive liked this guy for a really long time and he finally liked me and asked me out so we were dating for aout a month and then one night he was like our relationship is dulling down some...do u think we shuld b/u and after 1/2 an hour i finally got out that i did wanna b/u! well now we r really good friends...and hes like im not going to talk to u until high school starts cuz i wanna get over u...well i dont wanna lose him as a friend and i still like him as a bf a little im just confused so whats a good way he we can talk and him no have to get all sad =( he said i can only call if i wanna go back out! what should i do...cuz i still like him!!!!!!!!!!

IF U DIDNT READ THAT: bottom line how can i get my ex bf to get over me without us talking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I still love him to death just not in a romantic way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Update:

a lot of u think i like him...he likes me and i dunno if i like him...please dont answer if ur going to say something like ur to young 4 love...because im not telling u how old i am just 4 that!~

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  • 2 decades ago
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    well tell him how you feel and then be like i wanna be freinds but yea lets take it step by step and see how it goes from there.. tell him that you dont want to lose him as a freind .. and if you guys talk alot maybe you will like him more

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    first of all hunny u look like ur young.....14 maybe? anyways a girl in ur age (early teen) has thoughts about boys and love, blah blah blah...anyways u dont love him and niether does he. if he wanted 2 breakup it means no fate gurl! u can tell him how much u like him but stay friends i think ur better off that way cuz if u get back together he might still not love u but show the oppisite 2 u and when u find out u would be soooo heart broken and hurt so take this advice from an experienced gurl (thats still a teen '17' but has more experience) and listen 2 me. good luck anyways but try 2 concentrate on ur studying and high school now cuz that never comes back but believe me; guys are everywhere.....even in trash cans! lol

    Source(s): -ur sweetest dream (own experience)
  • 2 decades ago

    coming from a similiar situation.. u just need to be honest with him. let him know how much u value his friendship, and explain that u dont want to lose him. Most likely he will need time to heal since u already took it to the 'g/f b/f ' level, and it probably would be best to give him some time and space if u are ready to let that part of ur relationship go. If u value his friendship, dont play games with him. make up your mind exactly what type of relationship u want with him and let him know why. If he truly cares for u then he will take u any way he can get u... even if it is just friends...... but give him his time to heal and let him know you'll still be there when he is ready to continue the friendship.

  • 2 decades ago

    ok...so, have you ever heard that lame saying..."if you love someone, let them have wings, if it is meant to be, they will fly back to you". Something like that. Anyway, I would just let things be...have fun, try and not think about him. Give him time to figure out his own feelings. As soon as you stop spending so much of your time thinking about him it will open your heart up to someone else. Hey, it may just make him take notice of you again! And! And! No matter your age, affairs of the heart hurt. Be true to your heart. Best wishes!

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  • RJ
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    darling...ur 2 young 4 love n YES THAT IS POSSIBLE for all those hippies who think u can fall in love within a half hour n say that ur nvr 2 young 4 love...but yea u said the only way u can go back out is if u call him so call him...¿¿¿duh???

  • 2 decades ago

    This guy you're talking about is smart... give him the time he needs. If there's any chance of a friendship, he'll let you know when the time is right. If you try to force anything before then, you'll just end up kicking yourself for messing things up even more.

  • 2 decades ago

    give him time he may be for real or just may be a bit mad it did not work out so time is your friend..

    then find a way to start talking to him again and not bring up the past and stay positive and upbeat, that way you will have a true friend.. and if there is any way you can help him out with another girl he likes do it.

  • 2 decades ago

    You have to make it very aware to him that you do not like him like that, And you have to talk to him like you would a friend so he will get over it, if he tries to make you feel bad for breaking up by saying things like " i miss you" Or "I wish I could have you back" avoid it and change to a happier subject, Make it obvious to him that it just isnt gonna happen

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    you;'ve learned an important lesson...boys are not friends, they only think about girls in a romantic way. leave him alone and move on, It will never be the same again. In the future, if you want a guy to talk to, don't date him!!!!!

  • 2 decades ago

    Write him a letter, telling him how you really feel and that you need to talks to him personally. But if he do not show any interest. My advise is 4get him. He might have found someone else just that he had not guts to tell you.

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