What do you do when your baby's dad is a LOSER?

Boot him out and support the kid yourself. It's working for me. Of course, it means having a high-enough paying job that you can afford the bills yourself...

Why would you sleep with a loser and now you have a child...

Try and be the best mom you can be...so your child does not have two losers as parents, someone has to save that poor child and it might as well be you the mother don't you think?

It's your fault. You're probably constantly nagging at him, criticizing him and not including him in any of the choices or decisions of the home. My guess would be you are an over-bearing female who is temperamental and spoiled. He's probably sick and tired of you and doesn't want his marriage to end, but doesn't know how to get through to you. I bet you're the type who is always the victim and always ready to blame everyone else for your problems.

Try being nice.

I would look at the mirror and wonder how I allowed myself to be impregnated by an idiot. I'd blame myslef; stop putting blame on others; and improve myself in all ways so I can improve the life of my (not his) child.,

leave the bugger (if you're still with him) then go about your life. don't waste time putting child in the middle. they will learn with age. just keep your mouth shut and be the best parent you can. that is what will make the most impact during their up-bringing years!

all truth will become apparent with time.

you try to get him involved with the kid .through him and his family but if that doesn't work take him for child support and then find him a new dad.

Kick him to the curb and then take him to court for child-support, and never let him back in.

Put him on child support and forget about him...or u can always talk to him if not loose him

If your husbands name is on the Lease or you and him own it together you can't kick him out . You'll have to leave him . Good Luck I'm in the same boat

Take the child and leave him