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why r almost all girls that I come around are so immature and materialistic?

I am fond of women mostly(age 30 or above) because I can't find girls of my age (18-25) who are serious about their lives, who are not just into themselves, who can't even offer u a generous smile or "how r u?". But of course, all these women are married and have kids but still just by look I can see in them what I can't see in girls around me. I guess that's what we call maturity.

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  • 2 decades ago
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    I have the same problem, all the guys seem to only want you for one thing or they are so immature. maybe we should talk sometime, we can always help one another. slyshewolf@yahoo.com.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    One, you are looking in America. Our government does not have good sense because our young people are being raised without sense. Girls these days are more interested in "chemistry" them forging and actual relationship. It is not Mr Right, but Mr Right Now. They want flash over substance. It is like the micro wave , video game culture; "I want it all, I want it all, I want it all, and I want it now!". Look to Russian or the Ukraine, and even South East Asia. You will find many women that are sub 25 who have the smarts to know that a good man comes with some miles and age maturity. And if you still want to go older you can find many that would but these young Yankee gals to shame, EVEN after having 2 kids. Because they live active life styles ans are not couch potatoes. It is not about attracting women with characteristics that mirror yours. That makes no logical sense seeing how many women married serial killers with out being one themselves. You look across the water. In this case the grass IS greener on the other side.

  • 2 decades ago

    well im almost 20 and im not materialistic or immature. i feel the same about guys my age that is why my man is 30. you gotta get lucky to find a woman like me (not being a snob or nothing but its just rare). all of m female friends are older because of that

  • 2 decades ago

    i think that in many situations it is up to you. we as girls some times we act differently around people. if u seem down to earth n u are nice. girls are going to be nice to you. im 22 and im a college student and i know a lot of people our ages who can be very materialistic n some times arrogant with dates who are the same way. so just remember to be nice n sweet and they in return are going to be nice to u.

  • 2 decades ago

    it is just the girls you hang around. Most women are much more mature than men

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    We usually see a mirror of ourselves in the people we choose to associate with. Are you mature enough to grasp that?

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    welcome to the "me" genration and you find a lot of women like that

    soon the ones who do get married will end up divorced

    then you'll be a hot catch for some women who is getting older, less attractive and will compromise for the sake of a husband

  • 2 decades ago

    Really?

  • 2 decades ago

    Got MILF?

    wOrd

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