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Am I ready for such a commitment?

I love my boyfriend but lately these problems have really got me mentally and physically tired, and im only 19!!! Do you think its okay to be a serious relationship at such a young age? I mean I have a lot of history wit him and stuff, we dated and were friends through high school, and now im a sophmore in college, can this work?

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PS I am posting this up more then once to get the best answer possible!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Of course it's possible that it could work.....BUT the both of you have to put an honest effort into it and sometimes girls/guys just don't see eye to eye on certain things. If you still can communicate respectfully, then just sit him down and tell him your worries....tell him that you don't want to lose him but there are certain things that are bothering you and your beginning to feel a need to put a little space between the two of you unless you can work them out. Hopefully this will get him thinking and he will try a little harder to understand you and work WITH you....remember it takes two!!! Yes, you are still young and chances are that your lives might take seperate directions but like I said if you both agree that it's worth salvaging then GO FOR IT!!!!

    Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Damn, when I was 19, I was a hoe. But hey, I'm a guy and some guys are like that. You know, it doesn't really matter how old you are to be in a serious relationship. If you're happy being in the serious relationship than be in a serious relationship. If you're unhappy or just want to see what else is out there, it's up to you to see if it's really worth the risk. I will tell you this though, I'm in my late twenties and I'm more regretful for the things I didn't do rather than the things that I did do.

  • 1 decade ago

    You are still very young but age has nothing to do with it. It has to do with maturity and knowing what you want from your mate. Traditionally are folks married early, some to the men they truly loved, some to the men that were good providers and some only because of family situation. People believe that the grass is sometimes greener on the other-side and find out its only dirt. If your tired of being tried down and want to walk on the wild side ab it, than its better to do it now since your only 19 and if its true love it may come back but that's a chance your have to deal with. But if you want out because he's putting pressure on you and mis-treating, than you have to get out. You seem to be a level headed young lady, looking to make the best out of your life, than don't come any short of it for no man.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that u can find love at any age u can be 80 or 16 and u can find love. think about him being gone from ure life will u miss him a lot or can u let it go weigh ure options.

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  • 1 decade ago

    no you are too young for a very serious relationship. you would know in your heart and in every part of your body if he was "the guy." Obviously he isn't or you wouldn't be so exhausted, you'd be elated.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Girl let me give you the best advice, cuz I wishe someone gave me this advice when I was in your shoes.... you are young...have fun and BE SINGLE...MINGLE.... go out with girlfriends... THINK ABOUT YOURSELF, and do YOU....

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