is receiving oral sex from another woman cheating if your wife doesn't do it?

Sorry to burst your bubble but I think it is mate! What is she asked the same question, what if she received oral from another man.. what would you consider it? You just want to have your cake and eat it too.

It depends really doesn't it on whether-or-not your wife knows about this and consents to it, if you are having sex with a woman other than your wife, without your wife's knowledge and/or consent that would be cheating yes – and yes oral sex is sex before you try to rationalise it, if you believe otherwise it would be no surprise if your wife was cheating on you too. To be blunt.

Well if your wife received oral sex from another man would you consider that cheating????? If you dont then i guess you just have to ask her!

You already knew the answer to this question, seems like you wanted to get some of the guilt off your chest. That way can be just as dangerous as the other when it comes to HIV, so, be careful in what you're trying to sneak and do. You need to let her know how important it is for you in the relationship, in order for you not to look outside of the marriage, and she may at least try and work on her issues to keep you in her life. Just hope she don't pay close attention to your actions enough to find out your secret. Communications is the key to keeping a decent relationship.

Yes, it is the something as having sex just orally. If your wife was to give another man oral sex are another man gave her oral sex wouldn't you say she was still having sex?

Yes

Yeah, it is considered cheating. When you wife does not want to do something, you don't go running to another woman. If you do, you are consider a cheater.

Of course it's cheating you weirdo. Lets just say this shall we............... If your wife was getting oral sex from another man, would you say that was cheating????

yes of course it is...what planet are you from? nice try though. cheating is anything you wouldn't do with your spouse right next to you and/or anything that it wouldn't be ok with you for your spouse to do. sooooooooo, would you do this when she's home, have someone come over to perform this service or do you hide it (if you do you already know its wrong) and would it be ok with you if your wife went out with another guy to get some lickin from him?

Yes, Mr. Clinton, it is still considered cheating. You are having sex with that woman, whether you admit it or not.