how can i tell him?

Very gently, but you have to be honest. You need to admit you were putting your daugther in danger and you totally are very sorry. Deal with the consequences....he will get over it in time but allow him to be angry just as you would if the situation was reversed. Put your daughters safety first and foremost!!!!!!!! You should be angry at yourself more then you are worried about what he says!

I agree with Debbie B, but I'd have his favorite dinner/lunch/breakfast ready whichever is coming up next right before and after telling him. And I'd make sure I wouldn't do that again. I'm sorry, but that isn't anything for the price of your child, you could have been hit by a drunk driver or had an accident. I think your husband would be more worried about that than the ticket and they can make payment arrangements usually if you can't pay the lump sum penatly, in some areas anyway. Sorry for being so blunt, but seatbelts do save lives, she could have been very hurt....then how do you apologize to your husband, or yourself. Good Luck!!!!!! Good Thoughts!!!!! All going your way!!!!

You are going to have to tell him one way or the other! If he doesn't find out from you them I'm sure he will from the insurance company if it goes on your MVR. Just tell him! If he gets mad, he gets mad. What is he going to do about it take your driving privileges away from you? You are a grown woman and mistakes happen and I'm sure it will happen to him sooner or later if it hasn't already and it will probably be a speeding ticket!

tell him

"hey, i know you are going to get really really mad and i'm sorry about what i'm going to tell you. i feel really bad, etc"

create a lot of anticipation with a tragic tone so he imagines the worst, then when you tell him is just a ticket then he'll be so relieved that he will not be so mad...

he'll be like: "oh, thaaaaat... don't worry, we'll pay it"

you will have to buy him lots of beer,pizza,get into some sext lingerie have afew drinks give him oral pleasure all night and then tell him you got a ticket and then tell him your really sorry you love him and you will be his wish for the whole week anything he wants he gets it

What Debbie said....times 2

no way out of this one, fess up and take your punishment

and for your daughters sake, use the seat belts

Just tell him. The sooner the better. If you wait too long then he could get furious or not trust you.

Just tell him, 135.00 is nothin..he will get over it...

Tell however you feel he is your husband he should understand.