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What do you think this says about how he thinks of me?

I sent my boyfriend a YA question. Because it asked what three things I would take on a deserted island. So I answered " a big boat, Todd and a guitar" Todd being my boyfriend who plays guitar.

Something came up in conversation and I asked 'Hey,did you get that one question I sent you about the deserted island?'

AND HE SAYS!!: 'Oh, I just delete those question emails you send me. I didn't open it."

OMG, how rude is that! That hurt my feelings.

Update:

I just want to say that if I sent it to him then there is a reason I sent it. I have maybe sent him 3 to look at. I would certainly look at everything he sent me, because it means something to him. But come to think of it - he hasn't emailed me in a very long time!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well, boyfriends are men. They just don't see those things the way we do. If that was me, I would be in his account everyday tracking his Q and A! But that would be because I would want to know everything about him and be a part of his life.

    If this is the kind of guy you want - then find him. But will you? Maybe this guy is not the one. But don't judge whether he is into you or not because of it. If you have other signs that are nudging at you and bothering you then you need to figure out if it is your insecurities that you need to tighten up or if you just won't be able to tolerate the lack of enthusiasm.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't blame you. But maybe he's just not into that sorta thing. I know a lot of people don't like the jokes and stuff like that ppl email. They consider it junk mail. But the fact that it came from you should have made a difference. He doesn't sound very considerate, sorry to say.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't take it too personally. A lot of people see that an email is a forward and automatically delete it. You are allowed to be a little angry, but only enough that he won't do it again.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't take it too hard. We all get SO much e-mail these days that it would be difficult, if not impossible, to get anything done if we were to have to read all of it, especially the forwarded junk. I'm sure he doesn't delete your personal e-mails to you. Those are the ones that count.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I can see your point. I think maybe though, he may just not like answering those. You should let him know it hurt your feelings, and ask what his reasons are for not answering. COMMUNICATION is key in any situation.

  • 1 decade ago

    baby girl, this is when you need to speak up. ask him why did he deleted it. yes, it's kind of odd to ask but don't care about the answer. maybe he has ADD.

  • 1 decade ago

    he doesn't like you asking questions about him and finding out things about him by yourself?

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