I have a serious problem concerning my sex life...HELP?

I'd like to start out with a big.. "you aren't the only one. this is somewhat common i think... and it can get better"

I think it's definetly a good idea to ask your doctor about it... getting in the mood isn't a choice.. it's there or it's not.. and it's there or it's not for a reason. It has to be something biological or psychological. I've had similar problems from time to time and we've been together for just over 2 years.

I think the female sexual appetite is delicate. If you really would like to be more interested maybe you should check out one of those over the counter type things that they have in the vitamin isle.. if nothing less you might psych yourself into it. I'd definetly speak with your doctor before that so make sure it's ok.. something good that I've heard of is 'horny goat weed'... the name is ridiculous but it might help.. My partner and I did get that once out of curiosity and we thought it did something.

Also, if you stay in a lot try going out more and getting more connections with people outside your marriage.. (not physical or anything.. just socially...) Sometimes we're not interested because of a certain way we feel about ourselves... maybe you need to feel more independant or more sexy.. or maybe just less stressed out.

Also, don't try to hide it from your husband.. approach the subject with him like it's something that you'd like to correct and you would like his help.. this way you can make sure he knows that you really do want to be intimate but your body isn't working with your head.

I hope this was at all helpful and that everything works out for you.

edit: I heard regular daily exercise may help also... that has worked well for me.

Going to the doctor may be exactly what you need to do specially if tiredness is whats keeping you from being intimate, other than that, have you told you spouse about how you've been feeling? Maybe he'll be willing to be at your side when you go get help. Good Luck!

you need to see a regular doctor ,get a full physical, have them check your hormone levels, this may be the cause of your declining libido, you didn't mention your age, weight,or if you have children, all these can cause stress, which can effect your need/want of sex, however in marriage you make sacrafices for one another, so if you love him thhat much, put your not feeling like it to the side an hit your man off,just to keep him from straying and you from getting paranoid!

I would suggest a medical exam. Could be low hormones, could be mild depression from some unknown source. I will say that once I was "spayed" and put on hormone replacement I was a new woman. Changed my attitude completely.

if you dont feel like going to the doctor, try taking vitamin tablets for women, that should decrease tiredness and give u more energy, therefore you will want to make love, if this fails i would seek medical help. good luck, lacking libido really is depressing.

u can go to the doctor for consultation. ru working. if u r working then do bring ur tensions to the home . home is nice place where we can get relaxation. try to do some meditation. think about ur past days with ur husband befroe u get into the sex.

Oh hell, just do it!!!

The more you have GOOD sex the more you will want it.

I'm wondering if he is lacking in the big "O" department.

If you are truly disinterested...go to a doc.

But you really should stop being so selfish, you are creating a situation that you fear the most...on purpose.

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a doctor will be the only soultions i am afraid it could be a medication alot of them kill your sex drive or you may need a medication. sorry i couldn't be more help Good Luck