Spouse& I share same vehicle?

yes you should look into what hes up too but i really hope im wrong

NO, maybe when you have the car he's wanting to be considerate of you and not make you get out later at night. But if he's got the car, then it's ok for him to work later, does that make any sense? I wouldn't put any stock in the emailing either, maybe he can email you when he's slow, but the times he doesn't maybe it's busier than normal, or someone's not there who should be. Don't go looking for the worst in every situation!

BTW, your marriage isn't going to be worth a hill of beans if you go looking for problems in it, and can't trust your husband. Don't see the worst in your husband, look for the best in him, and he'll come through.

No, you sound like a paranoid b*tch who is only looking for a reason to leave him or have a step-up on him. He probably is cheating on you if you act in real life as you do on this site. Im sure as far as he is concerned, being raped by a bull would be better than having to look at your crazy @$$, let alone f*ck you. And you are right, I dont know you, nor do I want to know you. You are taking something so small and turning it into a tragedy in your own mind, a tragedy to equal what Israel is going through right now. You make me sick, and you disgust me. Do your husband a favor and commit suicide!!!

why don't you pick him up after midnight --- if he objects - then tell him he needs to drive himself home before midnight when he has the car ---

you two need to work on the trust issues(marriage counseling) --- and if you don't work - get a part time job so you aren't obsessing over whether or not he emails you

Wow, tough advice from lera, but this alone probably means nothing, but if a pattern develops, I would sit down with him and have a talk.

Yes, you should be alarmed. I know of no positions for computer companiws that work will past midnight.

I would those are classic inconsistencies. Email him and ask why he didn't answer. Get a ride from a friend and see if the car is at work when he drives and when he leaves.

find a reason to have the car all the time ...

maybe he doesent want you driving late at night ? maybe he cheats who knows ?

ask him. if he can't give a straight answer, some hanky panky is going on.

You have the benefit of the doubt!Spy on him!Catch him if you can!