How do i become more confident in the bedroom?

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Ok so i enjoy sex and I have it as much as possible.  Ive been sleeping with the same guy for almost a year now and things are ok but im afraid hes getting bored with "normal".  I mean sometimes we do different positions and stuff, but im starting to get a little bored.  The thing is I have been having sex for 3 years now and I still feel completely clueless.  Im always afraid to do something first cause im afraid im not doing it right.  I wanna just shock this guy and take total control.  Any advice on how to go about all this?

nctarheels1969 · Accepted Answer

You have what the guy wants. You can do what ever you want if they guy knows he will get some. Just remember you have it and he wants it. You have 100% controll

pjthedj247 · Answer

Well just have fun and be willing to try new things.  It is OK to laugh while having sex if something funny happens.  Be yourself and if your partner knows you and is comfortable too then all will be well.  Also go to any bookstore and pick up some better sex guides.  Those can be fun and educational.

LovePinkPuffies · Answer

Stop being so self-effacing about sex, and what you MIGHT be doing wrong...

ask you boyfriend to visit an Adult store, and he'll role-play as a salesman who just accidently knocked on your door...bringng some lotions, etc, that you need to sample(of course with some of his help), then ask if it's ok for him to give you a body massage, where you play surprised when his hands start reaching where he's not "supposed" to be, and then he gently spanks you...etc...etc...be spontaneous girl, and go with it!

someoneelse · Answer

dont be afraid and just go with it. let your mind control it all. Just dont think about doing it right r wrong and just do it. also to spice up the bedroom try doing it other places, go camping or something.

Joe · Answer

Go to an adult novelty store with him. You'll get a ton of ideas and it makes a great date night.

blahblahblah · Answer

im sure you have fantasies- act them out! if you guys have been together that long there should be comfortability between you that you can do some crazy things!  tonight, surprise him, just get in your head what you want to do & do it!!!!!  he will go crazy!

Ilovedogs · Answer

Buy like sex toys n stuff.

Anonymous · Answer

get drunk then you can do anything and blame alcohol

Rooster · Answer

roleplay,,,,,,  just let your imagination go ,,,,,,,, have fun ,,,

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How do i become more confident in the bedroom?

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