Very high sexual drive (Mature adults please)?

It's perfectly normal for him to feel that way, but he lacks the self control to maintain a proper composer, for your sake.

Especially if you both work, or need to be up really early, he shouldn't wake you, at all for something self satisfying.

You need to talk to him, maybe you can endorse him masterbating, even though you're sleeping. Tell him that you dont find it gross, (most men masterbate, weither or not they admit to it or not, women generally dont find the need to as often as men, but at times do) That commentary was to clean up the fact that some people find it disgusting or "Sad" when it's perfectly normal.

infact, some men who masterbate, will last longer, when having sex. and that might tirer himself out, so he will not want to have sex again, right after.

Wanting to have sex, is not all about 'attraction' as it is so much about hormones. Sleeping naked near him, wearing a certain perfume, you only wear with him when you have sex, can also trigger the hormone, other things like, sleeping "really" close to him, or if you make whimper noises in your sleep, or breath heavy. Some triggers, (depending on the male, and on your tatics) for instance, if you usually tease him, while you're already in bed to get him wilded up, or snuggle him, in a way that's "insinuating", just being next to you in bed, might be the trigger.

Alot of men, have sex with a way of expression, although mostly females have sex, to be closer, Men do have that inner sense, that having sex, is a way of showing how they feel when they arent very wordy, and sometimes, it's an act of "power", not in a mean way, but knowing they can wake you up, and that you'd willfully agree, that alone, makes them feel like more of a man.

really depends on the personality of the individual.

If it's a bother to you, or your sleeping habbits, talk to him. if you're nervous about telling him to 'do himself', try hinting or insuniating. or come up with something, so it seems romantic rather than making him feel like he's odd.

There is nothing wrong. High drive appeared on adult male wround 20 years old and it varies from one to another. Give it some times it soon will be over and be normal again. Better feel grateful since not many can perform that well. Be sure to use lubricant while you are not in the mood so you won't feel forced and hurt. Also it is a good time to experiment things, to make sure that you are not left behind and feel it just an obligations. Take care of your health and exercise will make you feel fit during the time he is on his urges. Have a wonderful life together.

Alot depends on your age, but a high sex drive can be a way to escape reality, or just how someone expresses their love. If it's too much for you, research toys and games. Then your body won't take as much "punishment" if it's hurting or something like that. Some people have an insatiable drive, and it's not something that appears to be changable (is that a word). If you're afraid that you'll lose him by not complying, then I highly recommend looking into the master/servant side of life. If he's normally in control of his life, this may be the time for you to take charge of him; put him in restraints, only allow him to touch you when you want, "punish" him if he's disobedient...etc. I hope I'm not being too direct, but it sounds like you really want to know. Feel free to im me if you need more info. My husband & I've always had high sex drives, & there have been times that it was "overkill" for one of us, so alternative compromises had to be reached. There is a psychology to it, but as long as it's not unhealthy or interfering with daily living, then enjoying the moment would be great. Good luck.

I have the same issue in my home and the way I deal with it is to just give it to him because sometimes you don't want it but once you start, it's like DAMN what was I thinking, this is some good D***! We've been together for 10 years and the sex is like we just met till this day. Just thinking about it gets me excited. Anyway, I'm only 27 yrs and he's 32 and there were times when we both weren't in the mood and I've said no to him at times, I mean really, who wants to ruin the goods ; 0 )

My point is to give it to him because if you don't someone else will. But if you can't handle it tell him before you start feeling used. Because there are other things you can use to satisfy him when you don't want penetration.

me for some reason or another has a sex drive just like a man trust me the only reason he is waking u up is BC he wants to be with you instead of any one else. he would rather wake you up instead of jacking off his self is a sign that he is hungry for you. don't you think that it is kinda cool that u rock his world in his real life and in his dreams so much that when he wakes up he has to have you. but i also understand that u don't want to be awakin all the time i don't blame you the best thing for u to do is talk to him and tell him how u feel about it and tell him that altho the sex is great that he needs to let you rest for the next day so you can be in the same state of mind as him tell him that it is OK to jack off while you are sleeping but you would rather get rest for the next day. a good convo never hurts anything but be careful how u tell him guys have feelings too

Do you have the same drive? If you want it just as bad then go for it, have some fun. But if you are tired and don't want to just say "honey, not now, I am sleeping" or something like that. When my boyfriend is ready and Im not, i just let him know that we can have sex later. Let your man know you have a problem with the late night love making. That is if you have a problem with it.

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How old is he? This is of high importance. In the 20's? Totally normal. He will calm down with age. If he's already older, how long have you been dating? And how long has it been since he was in a sexual relationship before you? All this makes a difference.

My boyfriend is like that... he has very high sexual appetite lol. I kind of don't mind actually. Yeah, consider yourself very lucky. I feel lucky myself.. but I guess it can get annoying sometimes. Like, I would want to get a full night sleep.. but, he'll wake up and bother me lol. It's okay I guess, since I love him =).

You gotta be really lucky. Many guys at around that age, has a decline in their sexual drive. So.. he's very lucky to still have it going =)!

Okay...I'm gonna have to answer this question for the simple fact that my husband use to do the same thing...Men do that because when their laying in the bed right next to you...If they love you it's gonna turn them on sleeping or not sleeping...Trust me girl..I've been there..Done that!!:) It's a good thing ..Sometimes it can get tireing but it'll get old...He'll start slowing down adventually....Just go with the flow...I thought it was wierd at first until I asked my husband about it...

JUST BE GLAD HE'S ATTRACTED TO YOU!!THERE'S WOMEN WHO WOULD DIE FOR A MAN LIKE OURS...

By the way...Men are not the only one's who do that...Everynight when we went to bed, I had to get some so I'd sleep good...And if he acted like he didn't want to..Then I'd give him the sad puppy dog face....Of course that always worked

I think at first your appetite for you new lover is always higher. As time passes and things fall into a comfortable routine, life takes over. Everyone is different so, open communication with your partner and talk openly about each others needs.