I have had a real bad relationship, what can do to trust other gals again.?

have him arrested, and her as well for harboring criminal (activities related to knowingly allowing him to traffic and to drugs)

you def need to report b4 she or her son gets you involved.

dude, man the F up, get over it it is the past already. sd as a bro not a pimp :o) you need a vacation in warm tropical beaches

you def need to get over it. God saved your life, so live it.

I would suggest that you do a few things:

1) Its going to take awhile for this woman to get out of your system. You loved her. You didn't fall in love in one day, the love is not going to go away in one day. Let nature run its course. If you think about her, think about her for a little bit, then think about something else. You'll find after awhile you won't think about her as often.

2) Start dating again and remember that the new woman is not this woman. Leave your old baggage where you left this other woman and move on. A new woman deserves fresh chance to make you happy.

3) Next time, listen to your internal voice that tells you when something isn't right. You knew there was something wrong with that broad when she was ok with her kid trafficing drugs didn't you? That's a character flaw, and you knew it. Next time, follow your heart and cut those type of people out of your life. Your doing the right thing by dropping her. Always do the right thing.

Good luck

I think everyone has to experience that 'one' person. I have and all I can say is whatever you do, do NOT let that one person ruin your life. And do NOT put that person's faults onto people you meet in the future because you will just sabotage every relationship you have if you do. People are different and I'm sorry this woman hurt you, but don't give up on everyone. It sounds like you need to find another job if possible and completely forget about her. Eventually you will find someone else and because of this experience you will have a greater appreciation for the next person. Good luck!

Wow! That sounds like a very scary and complicated situation... and it sounds as though you have yet to let go of the emotions and anger that you're feeling about it all. Perhaps you should take some time to process everything and heal... and then when you no longer feel a great deal of resentment and anger... then you may possibly be ready to pursue another relationship (hopefully a healthy one!). I think that everything is apparently a little too fresh at this point and you are simply not ready to even think of beginning another relationship right now... so don't.

Best wishes.

I hope you don't judge all of women by the actions of a few. Yes, most of us will make a poor choice or two in our lives, still if we realize,change and learn from it, we've received a great lesson. I love my daughters,still my one comes before them as long as he is good to and treats them like his. I know the experience was bitter for you, still don't let it harden your heart. There are many good decent women still around. Rm, everyone at some time or another have made a mistake or poor choice,but it's who we all are now,that matters. Best of luck and may God bless..you will meet your one..You'll be happy you waited,because she will be worth the wait.

have a good professional relationship with her, but steer clear of her personally. It can be MUCH better to be alone!!

If I were you I'd turn her and her son into the police.