how do you tell a guy.... that you are cheating?

i feel that you should just don what your heart tell you to because i was in the same situation you are in i was talking to my ex but also talking to someone else but at the end your hurting somebody feelings treat others as you would want to be treated

It depends, if u are going for a serious relation with one man (bearing kids), then u can't hide the truth. Otherwise as many men do you need not to be honest. u may not tell him. If u look only sex keep on having both guys, even if they come to know they want mind they might have a chick that rocks his world in the bedroom too maybe. good luck

if u are going for both, you need to be honest. u may lose the guy but u may not. tell him. u may be surprised at his answer. he might have a chick that rocks his world in the bedroom too maybe. good luck

Try leaving your ex, meaning get some self control, and tell the guy. He has every right to leave you.

You can't have "Your cake and eat it to" If you want to still have sex with the ex then let the current one go.. Because once he finds out and he Will find out you will lose the current guy!!

Let him go now.

just tell your new bf. that you would like to keep talking to your ex because he is a really good friend.

You already know its not possible to have them both...you need to choose,if you want real love or great sex..and choose fast before you get your very own toe tag!!

People are crazy..and will kill for alot less!!

If you're only 'talking' to this new guy......what's the problem? Or is 'talking' the new word for having sex with him?

If it is only talking....then you owe him nothing and no explanations.

Why not men think they can have the best of both worlds - why can't you?

Be upfront and honest. It's so cruel to mess with peoples feelings!!!