Shonda

can you tell me what being a Cancer is all about?

How do you make the transition of moving from something you have been with for 10 years, to someone you barley know? I know that I need to cut that tie with an EX of mine, but I am scared to make the move to the next person because I really don't know them.. How do I know he not going to do me the same way my EX did? Where do I find the strenght to make this move.... This other person is willing to give me what I am looking for, and ready to try his hardest to make me happy..... But I am scared..What do I Do?

I have this open relationship with my ex boyfriend.. we spend everyday together and have some incrediable sex... but I just found out that he has another KID on the way by another woman. I am hurt and confused... I have the understanding that we were not together, but why do I feel this way? Can you please help me.. Can you give me some ideas on how to move on with my life quickly, where i am not hurting everyday... Everyday i feel like a part of me has died... is that normal.. we were together for 11 years and we have no children together?

tell me how you love something for so long, loose it... fight tooth and nail to get it back, but now you no longer want it... can you explain to me why this happened? But I don't want anyone else to have it..... How can I let another person reap the benifits I have been fighting for... for so long

How do i tell my roommate that she needs to start helping me take better care of my home.. Yesterday i went into her room and she had more plates under her bed than i had clean in my kitchen? Then for the most part she is a "I think I know it all.. She has a 2.5 year old daughter who can barly talk and register what you are saying to her... She yells constanlty at her child and she really does not take that mother and daughter time with her. We are friends until the end and I don't want her to think she is a bad mother but I just believe she is taking her anger and frustration out on my home and her daughter... Can you help please...

How do you help a person out when all the facts point to the opposite? I have a friend that wants a baby really bad... She has done everything that you can think of to try and get one... She has been on the fertilty drugs, seen a specailist, had her partner tested... she has been through every test possible, but still no baby... The docotor has not said that she can't have children it's just hard for her to concieve... Now from me looking in, it seems like she just can't have them.. She does not understand why she is being denied this road? what can I do or say to help her... She is my best friend and we both have cried over this, been depressed over this, and have prayed for this.... All of our friends are having babies and she can;t even be happy for them because she is so depressed about her not being able to have a kid... what do I do...

My bf of the last 8 months does not satisfy me in the bedroom at all. I have not had one orgasim. I don't want to cheat n him but he is leaving no choice. I have given him pointers on how to please me but he keeps missing the spot... I have played with myself in front of him so he could see what I am doing to get off.. Can you please help a sister out.. what else is there to do? Singed Confused and frustrated....

How do you tell a Man that you are in a relationship with, you don't like kissing them because there breathe stank? With thinking of there feelings? I have this friend who said she never kisses her bf because his breath smells like hot garbage.

there is a guy that I have been talking to for like 4 months,and he thinks that he is the only one I am talking to.. How do i tell him that I have still been with my EX? My x and I have this weird relationship. we know we can;t be together because of trust issues, but we rock each other world in the bed room... how can I keep both, or is it not possible?

what are the signs to look for, to see if your partner Loves you truely? How do you love someone for so long and not trust them? Can my insecurities come from other relatiosnhips that have been sour?