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Shonda
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Shonda asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

tell me...?

tell me how you love something for so long, loose it... fight tooth and nail to get it back, but now you no longer want it... can you explain to me why this happened? But I don't want anyone else to have it..... How can I let another person reap the benifits I have been fighting for... for so long

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Your victory was anti-climatic... That means it was such an emotional draining experience that by the time it was done, you were so over-it.

    You can't have it both ways...either you want it or you don't and if you don't want it you also relinquish control of who gets it. Time to poop or get off the pot!

    If it ain't worth your time and energy...move on! It ain't worth keeping it.

  • 1 decade ago

    YEAH I KNOW WHAT U MEAN, I FOUGHT TOOTH AND NAIL FOR MY EX AND THEN HE WAS SINGLE BUT I DIDNT WANT HIM ANYMORE BUT I DONT WANT ANYONE ELSE TO HAVE HIM EITHER- IT'S BECAUSE WE WENT THROUGH SO MUCH PAIN

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that you need to just move on. It's easy to say, not as easy to do. Try not to worry about it.

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