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Help Me please?

I have this open relationship with my ex boyfriend.. we spend everyday together and have some incrediable sex... but I just found out that he has another KID on the way by another woman. I am hurt and confused... I have the understanding that we were not together, but why do I feel this way? Can you please help me.. Can you give me some ideas on how to move on with my life quickly, where i am not hurting everyday... Everyday i feel like a part of me has died... is that normal.. we were together for 11 years and we have no children together?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Either you still love him or that there is a jealousy that you could not get pregnant for 11 years but another woman got pregnant.

    I say, just forget him. He is your ex so why are you still with him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course, it is normal to feel like that. You all have been together for 11 years. The fact is as long as you have contact with him the longer it is going to take for you to get over him. Spend your time with friends and family and whenever yo feel like you miss just remember how you felt when you found out he is having another child

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes ,,of course it is normal to feel this way....

    Just be thankful you found out about him before you ever got married...

    I cannot give you any sure-fired way to get over him. but I think that the best way is to get out with friends and do things to get your mind off him... Also be thankful that you had no children by him....

  • 1 decade ago

    u have a open relationship but yet he is the only one you are involved in,,now hes moved on and your like a call girl to him and you stand by and wait,,,DID i miss something,leave him alone and find you someone who will love and respect you not use you as his personal call girl!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    well, seein this guy so often will never let you get over him. try to avoid him. spend some time with other guys. eventually, youll find a guy you like more.

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