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Shonda
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Shonda asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

what do you tell a person...?

How do you help a person out when all the facts point to the opposite? I have a friend that wants a baby really bad... She has done everything that you can think of to try and get one... She has been on the fertilty drugs, seen a specailist, had her partner tested... she has been through every test possible, but still no baby... The docotor has not said that she can't have children it's just hard for her to concieve... Now from me looking in, it seems like she just can't have them.. She does not understand why she is being denied this road? what can I do or say to help her... She is my best friend and we both have cried over this, been depressed over this, and have prayed for this.... All of our friends are having babies and she can;t even be happy for them because she is so depressed about her not being able to have a kid... what do I do...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    stressing out is noy helping. stress reduses ur chance of having kids. ur body rejects from getting pregnant cause u cannot handle it.relax and enjoy making love. i know couple who had kids 14 yrs after they got married and they tried for 13 yrs!!!!!!!!! only when they stopped trying and stopped stessing abt it she got preganant and within 3 yrs she had two kids. God forbid if she really cant have them , then she should think of adopting, their r so many kids who need a mothers love, and she has got it and cant give it to any one . love has no boundries. so what if the kid is not born from inside her, u can love a child no matter what. i do hope she finds a way

    Source(s): I will pray for her
  • 1 decade ago

    try to talk her in to looking at one of those websites where you can adopt ot let her at least consider it if she cant have children. until then maybe it wasnt her destiny

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