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Move or not to move?

i recently got a job offer from a business in my home town. I asked my girlfriend would she move with me. No answer. There are plenty of opportunities there for her as well. But all i get is "if that's what you want to do" or She changes the subject. I want her to be excited and get out of this town that doesn't even have stop signs and do better. She complains about the job she has now but doesn't seem to want to move on.She wants to stay here because of her family, i get that, but they are encouraging her to go as well. Should i take the job and move on or stay here and mold?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Never stop your dreams, go for them full force. If she wants to stay close to home, let her. Don't be the one who say's I wish I would of went. Go, grab life, live it to it's fullest.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Life is short, and you are wanting to do something to better the situation for the both of you. Nobody likes change, but you can't let that stall your life. She either with ya or not. Sounds like her family will end up backing you if you decide to move, and she will most likely follow suit.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go ahead with the move. If she honestly loves you, she will follow.

  • Avid
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If you stay there and mold, you'll resent her for it. If you go and she doesn't follow you, you'll miss her.

    Which can you live with?

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  • gabby
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    move on do what's best for you

  • 1 decade ago

    i would take my job and if she dont want to come thats on her

  • 1 decade ago

    move

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