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Mary asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

In a DILLEMMA.....My Best Friend's Man is a cheater.....But I'm cool with him too....?

I don't know if I should break this too her or not. I love these two very much BUT she's my friend before he is. And I can't stand to know that he probably is still cheating and she's all clueless....I feel like I should say something...but this could get very ugly as they just bought a house. I don't KNOW WHAT TO DO....If I say anything this will change all of our relationships.....

Update:

He's told someone very close to me all his wrong doing who told me. I could confront him but I know he will talk me out of it or say something like he's stopped. Even though he probably hasn't.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    This is a tough call but the truth should prevail. Are they engaged? How do you know he is cheating? I really think that you should confront him first. Tell him that if he doesn't tell her, that you will. Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    if yu're a real friend you should tell your best friend about it. if she doubts you, tell her to find out things for herself. definitely things will change all your relationships and that's one big risk you have to take. risks come with consequences.

    we're here to make suggestion but in the end you have to make your own decision. take responsibility for the decision you will make.

    you're in a difficult situation. so i suggest that you pray and ask for enlightenment on what to do. good luck and god speed!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would tell her in a way that is like "Oh, I thought you knew he was banging that other chick"

    If you don't say anything I wouldn't say anything EVER, do not do the, yeah, I knew that after the fact cause she will totally be pissed you didn't tell her.

  • 1 decade ago

    dont tell her directly just lead her into the right direction and shes bound to find out anyway have her catch him in action or tell her that and she may not believe you but try to make her if shes truly your friend shell believe you and understand

    Source(s): my sis
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Say nothing. Let her find out on her own that she's with a cheater.

  • 1 decade ago

    do what u think is best even it hurts all of your relationships.... at least u are being a real friend

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