Anyone, girls mainly, know how to be romantic and keep it up when you're a guy and not be used to it.?

Romance is a character trait so it's not something that can be learned. It's the built in need to want the girl to be truly happy. If you "forget" and "don't think about it often enough" then by default, you are forgetting about her and not thinking about her often enough. Basically romantic "things" are just that, things. If you truly want to be more romantic with her, you will do everything in your power to make her feel special, loved, and appreciated. Use your unique abilities and your unique personality to do it. Show her that there simply is no other woman like her in this world, and that all the rest are just girls compared to her. Oh, I will give you one hint though. The best flowers are for no occasion at all.

when we wan guys to be romantic the first thing they think of is flowers and candy but there are other things little things that can be even more romantic. if you have access to her car put little post it notes in there say i love you and adding your picture isnt bad either, plan a picnic, one you prepared yourelf she will admire that you actually tried to cook, so what if you live down the road from her send her a 50cent card by mail just to say im thinking about you, when she has had a hard days work go to her place when you are expecting her home run her a hot bubble bath and bath her massage her shoulders, if she's sick come over with a pot of chicken noodle she will appreciate it and some vogue magazines for reading while she's in bed. but remember all of this isnt worth doing unless she is equally returning the favor i think women should make the effort to be romantic as well as men.

Wow, my man has a tough time with that too. He feels happy just spending time with me and doesn't think that i may want to be treated special sometimes. Let me reccomend a few lil things, and a few special things you can do. Lil things: Open her door, hold her hand, get her a drink without her asking, call her and ask how she is doing(really listen),send flowers. Special things, take her out totally out of the blue, picnic under the stars? try bubble baths, bed of roses, homemade dinner by candlelight, massages are great, breakfast in bed, write her a letter. I played a game with my man once and gave him one lil item for each day of the week, the items were clues, the clues were symbols for something special i was going to do for him. If he guessed right he would get that special suprise. I made it easy. The clues, a rose, a tea bag, baby oil, and a back scratcher. In the end he guessed right i gave him a back massage with tea rose scented massage oil. good luck.

You just need to be more aware. It doesn't have to be a big thing. Just notice if she wears a different perfume, nice outfit, her hair looks good, and tell her. Send her little cute notes where she will read them and say "isn't that adorable." Don't forget the day you met or her birthday, etc. It takes practice and congratulations for wanting to learn!!

surprise her. always surprise her. my boyfriend sometime surprises me with my favorite candy or with something cheap that i casually mention that i want. you don't have to spend a fortune. also at random moments just say you really love her. and tell her how beutiful she is and compliments diffent parts of her during the day jsut randomly. i really like it when wer'e just walking and i say something cute and my boyfriend will say i love you and smother me with kisses. not always kisses on the mouth but kisses on the cheek and forhead and neck and things. it' so cute. plan special nights for her. if you're like over 18, surprise her with a trip and take her out somewhere see somthing cool and then get a hotel and spend the night away from home. good luck. oh and surprise call her to tell her how sweet she is. like call her work, if it's at an appropriate work of course or like a home and i like it when my boyfriend leaves sweet messages on my phone about how he misses me and wishes i were there an lalala. okay good luck now.

I have the same problem with my husband, if you find out let me know. He needs a big dose of romance. I am an old fashioned romantic and love romance and passion in my life.

just, pay attention to her . dont make her feel like other girls are more important!! make sure u compliment her alot. ( that really makes girls feel good). if ur gonna talk about her to ur friends make sure u never say anything u dont want her to no about cause if u do she will probably here about it! good luck

losaluv

Just be sweet. It's awesome that you care enough to try, and she should recognize that. Random roses are always good, as well as gestures like opening doors.

Just compliment her at unusual times... bring her a single flower sometimes (not a lot though). Just little things...

quit jerking off so much,buddy.leave that hard-on for the broad!