My heart is in New York......?

go with your heart and mind if you want to move and she doesnt try a long distance relationship and see how that works or ask her try moving here nyc isnt that bad she can adjust to the fast pace

i wish you would have told us where you were now living. I am a New Yorker now living in Florida and loving it. Oh I miss my kids, but they are slowly migrating south. So what you have to weigh out as I did is - are there jobs avail where you want to move back to, what is the rent, utilities etc. Do you love this girl enough to stay with her? Personally i feel to heck with the hight cost of living in new york.

Long Island

Move to New York. There are plenty of other girls.

I don't know..but I have always maintained that no matter where I was..the minute I shut the door....I was home.....maybe you could convince your gf of that.

Get another girl friend

ask my lesbian friend shanna...shes 21 and needs 2 find a better girlfriend...im trying to help her out... http://profiles.yahoo.com/jeepchick_scully

shell help you forget about new york

Go on and go. Plenty more are available in N/Y.

find another girlfriend

Well you can always visit, right?