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Ok, I know the answer but I need confirmation!!!!?

I am talking to this guy, he is ok, I guess. But I think he is a liar. He really wants a serious relationship, and constantly tells me that he wants me to be loyal to him and build on a relationship. Now listen to this and tell me if it makes sense to you. He says yesterday that he took his daughter shopping for school and purchased 6 pair of sneakers, a $400 coat, and 3 pairs of boots. That is not counting the clothes. Mind you he has no car and I have never seen him with money. The thing is I tell him strait out "YOU are lying" and he insists he isn't. Why? I mean really why? I don't believe him but I am open to suggestions to his problem.

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My problem is if he lies about things like this especially when I give him a chance to say, "I was just kidding" but he tells me this random info especially when it comes to money. The thing is I made it 1000000% clear that I don't do that money hungry stuff. I told him that I don't ask men for money! I have a job and a car, I don't need to beg!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    even if he is telling the truth he seems like a clown for telling you the run down of what he bought if he was real he would have kept it simple with i just took my daughter shopping and she set me back a couple of dollars simple as that it would have been more respectabe with him keeping it real

  • 1 decade ago

    OKay so right off the bat you think LIAR, well not always, I know my dad puts im infront of anything, my dad buys me amazing things all the time and nothing for him. Thats just the kind of dad he is. I mean he may be lying, but he might not be.

    If you really like him and he likes you why would he lie ? Maybe he's lying to impress you ? Maybe he doesnt see his daughter much and wants to get her nice things when does see her.

    If your honestly doubting him on something that really isnt that important in life and he would lie about it Id say find a new guy there sweets.

    You dont need to be with someone that you dont believe over the small things, probably means you wont be able to believe him about the important things, and if he would lie about something so small he could lie about the bigger things.

    If you really like him talk to him about it. See if he is lying and if so why, only you know whos worth your time in life.

  • gary t
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    1 decade ago

    Ster away from this one. Youknow how your basic instincts are usually right!? Sounds like a person with an identity problem and trying to build his self being on words of measure. There are so many people out there that you can meet that why waste your time on this one? Good luck to ya!! GaryT

  • 1 decade ago

    If you doubt him already and you are not even in a serious relationship yet, once you are you will never trust him or anything he says. Might sound corny but trust is one of the most important things in a relationship..

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  • 1 decade ago

    $400 coat?! No wonder he doesnt have a car? His child is spoiled to the bones and he doesnt have a choice but to give in to his child's wishes. Lol. It sounds a little sketchy but its possible.

  • 1 decade ago

    He was trying to impress you, now that it back fired in his face he can't go back on it and say he was kidding, but it makes him look like a liar.

  • 1 decade ago

    Definatly lying. Why would he buy a kid a $400.00 coat? Doesnt make sense. Hes playing you for a fool. Dump him immediatly.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds to me like the guy is a pathological liar.

  • 1 decade ago

    He's a liar. Do you get any gifts that are expensive?? NOt saying that your a golddigger but if he buys you gifts like that then maybe, but if he's always broke...hes a liar.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like he's trying you impress you boo, but it also sounds like you need to keep your distance. If he would lie about clothes and boots, what else would he lie about.

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