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What keeps a guy happy?

Ok I thought I was a good girlfriend. I Have my own place, I let him stay. I cook every day. I work so we could have money. I have sex with him all the time in evey way.. Really every way..I even dress up for him in different langerie..It's like he doesn't care..What am I doing wrong? What else do I need to do to keep him happy? All we do is fight and he never takes me out anymore.. He us to love doing things and all he wants to do know is watch t.v. What happen?? I need a man.. What keeps a guy happy ?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    F*** keeping him happy it seems as if you have done everything that you can do FOCUS on yourself! Let him find another girlfriend that do everything that you do!!!! Guess What? HE WON'T!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    you created this problem yourself..doing to much for a person that isnt a grateful person is the wrong thing to do ..what does he do for you anything?you think you need him ...you shouldnt need a man for anything you should want him and only if he is good to you also ,,sounds like your getting the short end of the stick here ,,i would say talk to him first and then if that doesnt work act like you dont care whether he says or goes but dont be doing anything else for him and maybe he will open his eyes to see if he dont straighten up what he is about to lose.and if that dont work dump his a** and find you a real man that will treat you the way you need to be treated good luck to ya

    Source(s): me
  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It sounds like he's bored no matter what you do to entertain him. Unfortunately you probably love him more that he does you, but I can't say that for sure. Try telling him how you feel. If that doesn't work then things will get worse before they get any better. He has to come to the realization that you are all he needs in life. If that doesn't happen, then things won't go well for you two. Sorry.

    Source(s): Experience.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You are such an amazing girlfriend doing all those things for him. Some guys would kill to have such a thoughtful girlfriend. Maybe you are trying to hard? i don't know,your guy seems uncaring,find someone who will care about you and notice all the things you do for him.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There is plenty of men out there who would knock down a door to get a girl like you! One who is freaky and still takes care of busines. he is an idiot who dosent appreciate what he has. DROP him girl! And you will find another guy who will love you back the same way. DROP HIM!

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like it is not your problem. You are doing a great job. Maybe you are smothering him too much. My husband would love for me to do what you are doing, the whole dress up thing. Men are hard too please as are women. Dont sweat it, he'll miss it once you stop giving him the attention. Punish him, stop all the great things you are doing for him, until he asks you for the attention.

  • 5 years ago

    To be truthful with you, and somewhat embarrasing cuz am a guy myself, (properly it easily relies upon at this type of guy he's) sturdy intercourse is what keeps us chuffed, its somewhat shallow, yet its basically in our genes. and a gurl who might like giving heading every time and to be romantic no longer everywhere. i admire a woman whose curious, something approximately them...

  • Wayne
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    sometimes guys get complacent in their relationships.

    It's not meant as an excuse but it is truthful.

    We forget the very thing that drew us to you in the first place.

    My suggestion is to kick him in the butt so to speak and tell him to wake up. In other words tell him your thoughts.

    Source(s): seeing many of my boneheaded friends screw up relationships. myself included from time to time, sorry to say.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him youve found someone else and kick him out, Your to good for him. He sounds like a pussy

  • 1 decade ago

    You can't start to feel insecure about the realtionship, it's not healthy. This is your territory and you have to remember what you want, not "just" what he wants.

    The better you are to people, the more they use you.

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