why do people equate good looks with sexiness when its possible that they are as sexy as cold rice pudding and

I quite haven't met a woman with acne problem to be sexy...or the hot babe with a wart on her nose.

wrong answer!!! When the lights go out has nothing to do with being sexy. Sexiness is a state of mind. It's how the person that is sexy feels about themself. When you have confindence in yourself regardless of what you look like it brings about a sexiness because you feel good about yourself and people can see you project it. Sexiness comes in many forms.

I completely agree. Some people are conventionally unattractive, but incredibly sexy and eminently shaggable.

I don't really want someone who is better looking than me - I like to be the pretty one in a sexual relationship!

And what's with the skin? I don't even find anything exciting about good skin. In fact, if anything, I prefer a few blemishes.

Cause the looks come first by having a nice figure you already win 50% but on sexiness in bed it is just have to wait and see.

LMAO!!! Very good point and well said. I used to work with this woman(she was quite large) who would say " when the lights go out I'm Marilyn Monroe"

it can also make a person feel good if they think they look sexy

all people exaggerate with those "sexy" words?

its all advertising ... what are you selling today?