how do you stay calm when talking to your girl?

try to listen to her point of view and dont be judgemental. i get pissed off sometimes too, but just open ur heart and REALLY try to understand. girls are VERY VERY emotional and sensitive, i know cuz i am one!

all you can do is get through it. It's dang near impossible sometimes to deal with the constant lack of common sense. Sometimes it helps me if I can tell myself that they can't help being this way and that their irritating qualities also contain usefulness as well. Like when you lose something, who finds it for you? If you can't remember someones name, who do you ask? See, they do have redeeming qualities.

Write down a list of things you don't want her to talk about. Don't shout at her or tell her to shut up. It will make her more angry. Tell her not to talk to you for 12 hrs for both of you to cool down.

Count to 10 and walk away and come back and discuss it when the situation has defused

by realizing that she's someones daughter.. (how would u want a man to treat ur own daughter?) , Realize she will be if not already someones mother (how would u want someone to treat ur mother?) Respect.. is the answer, u can be angry , with out disrespecting someone..

Talk to a girl like you would with a guy. Girls don't bite. We are human beings just like you and just like your friends.

take it easy tell her that she is making you nervous try to renew your love you seem to start losing it

Your liberal attitude and bird eye view.