Serious question. What do guys really want us girls to do?

Well that depends on the guy. If he is really into you on a emotional level and its before the 4th date then he wants to hear you struggle with a no but he does want a no.

If you tell him yes, he will probably not turn you down but he will lose a little of the emotion immediatly following going there.

If he is into you physically then he wants a yes at any time. You can usually tell the difference by how much he pushes for the first time pre 4th date.

If you want just the physical then tell him right up front. If you see possible relationship then don't tell him.

Don't try to convince him to like you, men like the hunt.

I can't tell you what every man wants. I know what I want in a women. I want someone who will put in as much effort as I do. I want someone who will be by my side and never back down. All the other things will take care of itself. Just be loyal, honest, and loving and most men will be happy.

I hope this at least gives you some insight. Good Luck

I'm so scared of diseases that I wish non-christian girls would be more willing to wait till marriage. I dont care what god thinks I just dont want to catch a disease like herpes or something unless I'm positive it will work out with her. Girls these days seem to get angry like i dont like them when i say this though. Kinda sucks!!!

Well Lady,Men don't know what they want that's why they can't make commitments. So we have to Be ourselves and please ourselves first. That's what they do.To be happy in a relations ship don't lose who you are and go for your dreams in life. If it is meant to be for you to stay together he will be there to support you on these adventures.

Why don't you ask yourself what you want out of life? surely it's more than pleasing some man.

look sexy,dont develope a soft gut , be clean shaven and back us up at all times