""The greatest greifs are those we casue ourselves???""?

the worse things that ever happen to ourselves in our lives are almost always our own fault or brought on by the choices we make

There's a lot of stuff that happens to us. Most of it just goes by us and we deal with it. Sometimes, we dwell one something and give it more importance than it deserves. That is stress that we give ourselves. A large part of being happy is putting things in proper perspective.

Learn form your mistakes. When you continue to make the same mistake you are hurting yourself in an area you have control of.

Very true! It's like a woman staying with an abusive man, she has caused the grief because it is her choice by staying with him.

First, learn how to spell. Second, it means we are responsible for our own actions and mistakes.

I would say pollution, drugs,murder,war, rape, and abuse